So been seeing this chick for a few weeks. Met in the club shes had a pretty high interest level in terms of texting, arranging plans with me. We hung out at her apartment two weeks ago and I was trying to escalate. Making out no prob, coping feels, but everytime I tried touching that puss, she pushed me away saying not now. Ended up getting a nice bj that night so not all was lost. Next week on a Sunday she invited me over. More of the same thing, every time I tried to touch her, no go. Throughout the course of the night I eventually got her on the bed and fingers inside her for at least 3 minutes. I'm thinking it's game on and whip it out. Again as I go to pull her pantys off, she's telling me it's not right now and blah blah blah. All excuses, which I get, but have any of you guys ran into this before. This chick seems like she's into punishment or some **** or she just loves seeing me suffer. Any point on continuing trying with her
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Halp what am I not doing?
- Thread starter Ma3stro
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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For all you know she's just finished piping some other dude or something. Don't fight those things man, if she's blowing you be happy with that. Remember what she does with you she's doing with other dudes also. When a woman gets alot of traffic her pus smells, does she have a little funk down there?