"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Halo effect of parenthood

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Many of you have had children here.
What kind of halo effect did that have on your image as a man, particularly in social settings? I don’t mean just within the family, but also in broader social circles.


For example, my sister’s third child, a truly beautiful baby, brought a lot of popularity to the couple expecially during the first two years of his life, both socially and in terms of networking.
Even now, at 12 years old, that child is adored and doted on by everyone.


As a result, the couple's image improved significantly within their social circle. They went from being relatively unknown to quite popular. Additionally, my BIL earned the reputation of being a “great dad,” even though I can assure you he really isn’t.
But simply by being associated with his son Chris, people perceive him as an excellent father.


Have any of you experienced something similar? And how did it make you feel?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Lol I see it with a lot of my friends, whose got all these likes from their family birthday parties and kids get togethers. But really the ones who gets viewed the most are the ones whose always got some sort of freakin drama in their lives and unleashing their emotions on social media. You don't want to be those people, but you really are watching the whole escapade with popcorn and a soda.
 
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