Im trying to hook up with this girl, we'll hang out this Friday and then I'll probly ask her out sometime next week. I've successfully inserted myself as her official hall walking buddy between two passing periods. Problem is I'm kinda running dry for cool hall conversations that are more girl-friendy than just plain friendly. Lately its been all about the test we just took or whatnot. Now its not sooo bad because I'm funny and I can usually make her laugh even when we are talking about something completely boring. But I'd like to hear opinions on quick (one-two minute) conversations that would actually move our relationship forward. Any advice?
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Hallwalking Conversations
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Brazilian_Blues_Boy
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Funny Names
" Hey, I just heard the funniest name ever... "
then you can slide to the " soap opera characters "
" Doesn't XXXX sound like a soap opera character?"
And then you're on your own... these are little stupid things that EVERYONE relate to , so use them to your advantage. I managed to get a girl I barely knew to tears using that... (of course, I have the gift
, cough *modest* cough)
BBB
" Hey, I just heard the funniest name ever... "
then you can slide to the " soap opera characters "
" Doesn't XXXX sound like a soap opera character?"
And then you're on your own... these are little stupid things that EVERYONE relate to , so use them to your advantage. I managed to get a girl I barely knew to tears using that... (of course, I have the gift
, cough *modest* cough)BBB
Brazilian_Blues_Boy
Master Don Juan
In two-three minutes conversation, you won't advance your relationship.
If you find out how, please tell me two, because not even Speed Seduction patterns work in only 2 minutes....
I gave you some ideas about funny things just to make her laugh... in short time...
If you find out how, please tell me two, because not even Speed Seduction patterns work in only 2 minutes....
I gave you some ideas about funny things just to make her laugh... in short time...
hmmmmm..........
Now you can choose not to take this advice...but if you doand you pull it off it will be gold.
k, heres what i tried once by accident.
I aimed the conversation towards lesbians in porn movies ( i dunno how, but i just did and don't get me wrong the girl i was talking to was not a slut or anything..she is very goody-good).
i was just debating about how most lesbain scenes in those movies had girls who weren't even lesbians and how it was wierd that they seem to enjoy it so much(even though they were straight).
But than i just reliazed that i openly admitted to her that i had watched this crap and so i sorta sarcasticlly said "at least thats what i hear from other people...not that i actually watch that stuff hehe".
This was sorta unplanned...but it actually got her blushing and laughing and totally comfortable around me.
you don't have to do this exact same thing, but try to stir things up and make fun of yourself if you have to. As long as get a joke that is so absurd that its almost akwardly funny and you have got yourself a solid convo.
Now you can choose not to take this advice...but if you doand you pull it off it will be gold.
k, heres what i tried once by accident
. I aimed the conversation towards lesbians in porn movies ( i dunno how, but i just did and don't get me wrong the girl i was talking to was not a slut or anything..she is very goody-good).
i was just debating about how most lesbain scenes in those movies had girls who weren't even lesbians and how it was wierd that they seem to enjoy it so much(even though they were straight).
But than i just reliazed that i openly admitted to her that i had watched this crap and so i sorta sarcasticlly said "at least thats what i hear from other people...not that i actually watch that stuff hehe".
This was sorta unplanned...but it actually got her blushing and laughing and totally comfortable around me.
you don't have to do this exact same thing, but try to stir things up and make fun of yourself if you have to. As long as get a joke that is so absurd that its almost akwardly funny and you have got yourself a solid convo.
Huh thats an interesting angle hehe kinda unconventional. Perhaps I'll try something along those lines.
To BBB- I pretty much have three, three minute conversations a day with this girl. Maybe once in a while we talk for a bit longer if we actually sit down some place. But this is the perfect setup - Convos spread out over the course of the day. I can't think of any reason why I would want to talk to her more. What DJ wants to have long conversations with a girl he's pursuing? I'm loving the get in get out tactic. It defenitely prevents falling into the friend zone (sitting down for hours and talking about random bull**** to pass the time). Thanks for the fast reply, but I'm looking for ways of making this girl laugh, feel sexual, etc. like Sushi suggested.
I defenitely want stuff that includes kino - arm around the shoulder walking down the hall is always nice. I must have done this thirty times over the last two weeks and its getting kinda dull so I need some spice.
To BBB- I pretty much have three, three minute conversations a day with this girl. Maybe once in a while we talk for a bit longer if we actually sit down some place. But this is the perfect setup - Convos spread out over the course of the day. I can't think of any reason why I would want to talk to her more. What DJ wants to have long conversations with a girl he's pursuing? I'm loving the get in get out tactic. It defenitely prevents falling into the friend zone (sitting down for hours and talking about random bull**** to pass the time). Thanks for the fast reply, but I'm looking for ways of making this girl laugh, feel sexual, etc. like Sushi suggested.
I defenitely want stuff that includes kino - arm around the shoulder walking down the hall is always nice. I must have done this thirty times over the last two weeks and its getting kinda dull so I need some spice.
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For some great kino pull out your penis and smack her in the forehead with it! That'll make way for conversation for the next few weeks too.
For some great kino pull out your penis and smack her in the forehead with it! That'll make way for conversation for the next few weeks too.
Hey Bro!!
I know excatly what your talking about. Something to talk about
while your're walking her to class.
Try these:
"What college are you thinking about going to?"
"Have you seen the latest eposide of (insert tv show)"
"Are you working or involved in any outside activities"
"What are you plans for this weekend?"
"Do you understand all that stuff the teacher is talking about?"
I could go on but these should do.
Hope this helps any!!
Also I know this sounds weird, but stop walking with her for about a week. She will wonder where you are and she wont be tired of seeing every single class period. I'm not saying hide from her or anything, if you see her say hi, and keep walking. Just kinda make yourself scarce for about a week. Then after that surprise her and start walking with her again. Strange as it sounds it works.
Later Fellas!!
Jay83
I know excatly what your talking about. Something to talk about
while your're walking her to class.
Try these:
"What college are you thinking about going to?"
"Have you seen the latest eposide of (insert tv show)"
"Are you working or involved in any outside activities"
"What are you plans for this weekend?"
"Do you understand all that stuff the teacher is talking about?"
I could go on but these should do.
Hope this helps any!!
Also I know this sounds weird, but stop walking with her for about a week. She will wonder where you are and she wont be tired of seeing every single class period. I'm not saying hide from her or anything, if you see her say hi, and keep walking. Just kinda make yourself scarce for about a week. Then after that surprise her and start walking with her again. Strange as it sounds it works.
Later Fellas!!
Jay83
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Don Juan
Listen to Jay83! This works amazingly! After school every day, I used to walk back to our lockers with this hottie, and just for like a week I stopped. We used to have great convos on our walk there. During that week, I drove her INSANE. She would do anything to get my attention. She didn't know what was going on. She'd try and stalk me after class, but I always seemed too busy for her. Then the week after, on the Monday, I started walking with her again after school, and then she took me to her house
Try it out! (Remember, there's gotta be something there in the first place for her to miss!)
I don't see how it is possible to run out of things to say ..BUT
just make fun of her
its always a DJ thing to do to bother a girl and make her laugh, just dont be too rude about it...you can make fun of the way she walks..talks...things she says/does...what shes wearing...ANYTHING!
just make fun of her
its always a DJ thing to do to bother a girl and make her laugh, just dont be too rude about it...you can make fun of the way she walks..talks...things she says/does...what shes wearing...ANYTHING!