"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Halloween Costume?

Sly6699

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 9, 2009
Messages
35
Reaction score
0
As you probably already know, Halloween is approaching - it's on this Saturday actually.

There are lots of parties and events - all great opportunities to have some fun.

Does anyone have any costume ideas? Could be funny, interesting, etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Desert Fox

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 16, 2008
Messages
786
Reaction score
22
I have a blank white tee that I painted "cheap ass costume" on the front.
 

Yotsuya-san

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 11, 2004
Messages
393
Reaction score
1
Location
Maison Ikokku
For goodness sakes, avoid dressing like some celebrity that's currently being media exposed to death. I've seen articles about people who plan to go as Octomom, Balloon Boy, John and Kate. Jeez, last year it was Sarah Palin. These are costumes? When did this sort of thing become popular?
 

RMM

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 2, 2009
Messages
257
Reaction score
2
The Ostrich Rider is always a good one. Bit on the complex side though.

I usually go simple. Hat, poncho, few-days beard growth and boots with spurs this year. I may have to chew on some grass stalk or similar to complete the frame.
 
Joined
Oct 29, 2009
Messages
274
Reaction score
1
I figure I'll just be someone from flashdance, lol! No, in all seriousness, probably I'll be the straight guy from 300.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Top