"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hallelujah, the 4th Amendment Lives!

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Good news stories are rare. This is one to be thankful about. The 4th Amendment of the Bill of Rights guarantees your right in the US to be free from unreasonable government searches. It's the reason that police have to get search warrants. Your right to not consent to a search is something most Americans take for granted. It also has been dying just a little bit every year for a long time. If this case had gone the other way, it would have meant that police could kick in anyone's door, as long as they brought a dog with them.

http://www.csmonitor.com/USA/Justic...o-sniff-outside-your-door-Supreme-Court-rules

Drug dogs need a warrant to sniff outside your door, Supreme Court rules

March 26, 2013

When police brought a trained drug dog to the outside of a Florida home to sniff for evidence, that violated the homeowner's Fourth Amendment rights, the Supreme Court justices said in a 5-to-4 decision.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thank God for the hoodies!

What's your opinion on those clowns broadcasting the audio of the gay marriage debate? I kinda think it's a bad idea. They might get the idea that they are celebrities or something.
 

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Everybody knows how the gay marriage debate is going to end up; just like Roe V Wade, the court will say that they suddenly found the part in the Constitution that addresses the issue. Then it will become a Constitutional right, and just like abortion, every state law restricting it will get invalidated.

Personally, I don't care who gets married, but I am against the court suddenly reading new rights into the Constitution all the time. They always act like the right was there all the time, we could just never see it, like somebody spilled coffee on that part.

Much more disturbing to me was that in the case I linked to above, it was a 4-3 vote. Three supreme court justices are basically saying that police should be exempt from the 4th Amendment. It's not "the hoodies" that affects - it's everyone with a front door that they don't want kicked it.

Police dogs are notoriously inaccurate, when error of both dog and handler is taken into consideration. Usually the problem is the handler, but there are also a lot of sleazy dog trainers who scam police departments into paying $4,000 for a $400 German Shepherd because they pretend its trained. Judges are reluctant to validate those arguments, though, because it would throw out all searches that began with a dog and then the resulting convictions could get tossed, too.
 

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A lot of it is about Federal government employees who want health insurance and benefits for their same-sex partners, which is what straight married people get. The US Government is just about to become even more broke.
 

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Bible_Belt:
Police dogs are notoriously inaccurate, when error of both dog and handler is taken into consideration. Usually the problem is the handler, but there are also a lot of sleazy dog trainers who scam police departments into paying $4,000 for a $400 German Shepherd because they pretend its trained.
It's not just inadvertent mistakes, the dogs can be intentionally tricked to give false alerts on cue.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MdOKUb0jQko
(watch from 23:33-26:05)

Case in point: the Nevada Highway Patrol.

http://www.8newsnow.com/story/18886948/2012/06/26/nhp-troopers-sue-department-over-k-9-program
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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