"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hairy situation

MrRhythmic

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This could be a very long post, but I'm not fond of them, so here it is:

1. I lost a bet, and consequently had my head shaved.
2. Am currently long-gaming a chick who WILL NOT find this attractive.
3. We're used to seeing each other once a week.

In short, I'm looking for suggestions as to how I can avoid seeing her. We both have fairly busy schedules anyway, so I'm thinking of just hamming up the work angle. I don't want to seem too uninterested, she seems fairly switched on to that sort of thing and will just bail if I NC her.

My plan is to work out like crazy in the time it takes my hair to grow back to an acceptable level, then she'll be like ooh hello... But meantime... Suggestions please on how I can politely fob her off.

:rockon:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tyson420

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MrRhythmic said:
This could be a very long post, but I'm not fond of them, so here it is:

1. I lost a bet, and consequently had my head shaved.
2. Am currently long-gaming a chick who WILL NOT find this attractive.
3. We're used to seeing each other once a week.

In short, I'm looking for suggestions as to how I can avoid seeing her. We both have fairly busy schedules anyway, so I'm thinking of just hamming up the work angle. I don't want to seem too uninterested, she seems fairly switched on to that sort of thing and will just bail if I NC her.

My plan is to work out like crazy in the time it takes my hair to grow back to an acceptable level, then she'll be like ooh hello... But meantime... Suggestions please on how I can politely fob her off.

:rockon:

Tell her you got mugged by black people.
 

TheJazz

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She'll think it's cute and respectfully joke about it. Expect nothing less. If you get something less, backhand the ***** and walk away.
 

jammy1257

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TheJazz said:
She'll think it's cute and respectfully joke about it. Expect nothing less. If you get something less, backhand the ***** and walk away.
Exactly this, I see no reason why that should change anything because if it does then it means she only liked you for your looks and that's bull****.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CantTouchMyStyle

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To avoid looking like a degenerate/idiot;

tell her you shaved it along with some other friends to support a friend/relative who is going through chemo.
 
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