“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

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Hairy Arms

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I've seen this hot british chick a few times now. She is into me and we've made out intensely when I've seen her. Today she came over to my place for the first time and I know if I tried I could have had a chance to bang her.

She is tall, pretty, nice body, 34. However today was the first time I saw her wearing a short sleeve short and her arms were pretty damn hairy! I couldn't get that out of my head... We were watching a movie and she kept leaning on me and cuddling and all that... I tried to push it out of my head and kissed her but her top lip was so chapped today for some reason... I basically got really turned off... I acted like I was tired and finally drove her home (though I can tell she wanted to stay)

Anyway am I being too picky here? Would this turn all of you off as well?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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When you get picky you know the attraction to her isn't really there. More of a 'you will do for now' situation maybe?
Subconsciously you find her value a lot lower and its making you pick out negatives
 

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^^^that's it right there. If you were way into her you'd overlook it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

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Unbelievable... Met a other cute Italian chick with this same issue!!! Honestly if not for the hairy arms banging them would be a no brainer.

So the question is.. If a girl is fvcable but has hairy arms.... Should that be a reason not to bang her? Or is it trivial and I should just hit it if I can?
 

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hahaha, just do what you want man. I don't like girls like that either, but I've never had anything with any of them so I don't know.
 

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My ex gf started shaving her arms when I said something about my ex wife being hairy..
 

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If it turns you off, it turns you off... Doesn't matter what anybody else thinks about it, your taste is your taste.
 

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Well since you can't get past the arms, might as well give her a hint and see if she does something. Next time you see her poke lightly about it, grab her arm and hold it next to yours, "you know I think your arm might almost be as hairy as mine" ... she'll prob be surprised and ask if you don't like her arms, "oh no I'm just not used to that"

If she shaves her arms, game on. If not, least you tried.

The more I think about this the more it sounds like a Seinfeld episode.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Well since you can't get past the arms, might as well give her a hint and see if she does something. Next time you see her poke lightly about it, grab her arm and hold it next to yours, "you know I think your arm might almost be as hairy as mine" ... she'll prob be surprised and ask if you don't like her arms, "oh no I'm just not used to that"

If she shaves her arms, game on. If not, least you tried.

The more I think about this the more it sounds like a Seinfeld episode.
Mine made any I.provrments I hinted about.
 

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I had a gf long ago with the chapped lip problem, grossed me out because she wouldn't do anything about it. Got so bad that she couldn't smile properly because it hurt. She said if I loved her it shouldn't matter. One of many things that led me to cut the cord. You'd think her friends would see it and understand, but they didn't. Weird.
 

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This turns me off too. They spend so much time on their legs, I don't understand why they can do arms while they're at it... Lately, this one I'm seeing has a good amount of hair down under, and it's wigging me out. This stuff kinda adds up, and then you just don't feel happy even right after banging them. I start getting philosophical... perhaps I don't love myself enough and so I'm incapable of loving someone else despite their flaws... or perhaps it's all good and I just keep going until I find the unicorn...

A chick you're super attracted to and enjoy hanging out with... multiple times... the holy grail it seems
 

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Body hair is one of my biggest turnoffs. If she doesn't shave or wax her arms I can almost 100% guarantee you she doesn't shave her ***** either.
 

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Body hair is one of my biggest turnoffs. If she doesn't shave or wax her arms I can almost 100% guarantee you she doesn't shave her ***** either.
I don't agree with this. I have a plate that does not shave her legs. But its only because she doesn't have to. Only on close inspection you may see some growth. Her legs are smooth and sexy. Anyway, she shaves her pvssy for each time I am over and I like it very much.
 

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Maybe it's a common ethnicity thing. They might have a lot of body hair in general.
 

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Latina girls often tend to have a little extra hair, if it's not your thing and it turns you off then move on and find a girl who shaves.
 

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I don't mind a woman to have a little hair here and there s long as they have an hourglasses figure and look feminine otherwise.. I actually prefer women who don't have a shaved ****.
 

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a big percentage of women naturally have hair on their hands , but they just remove it , so it just mean she didnt remove it , maybe be she think she is hot enough for you to not do more work .
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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