"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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umm hairstyles arent one size fits all. Figure out what'd look good on YOU.
 
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clix said:
umm hairstyles arent one size fits all. Figure out what'd look good on YOU.
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umm I almost look like brad pitt. but I have curly hair do you know what look best on me?
 
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umm I almost look like brad pitt. but I have curly hair do you know what look best on me?
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lol...sure ya do
 
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um...assuming that you "almost" look like brad pitt. you can pull off any look. It depends on the look you want to go for, preppy, surfer, edgy??

I think the best look for brad pitt is bald; he looks incredible HOT when he shaves his head.

but then again this is only 1 female perspective out of a billion
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2_intense2 said:
um...assuming that you exactly look like brad pitt. you can pull off any look. It depends on the look you want to go for, preppy, surfer, edgy??

I think the best look for brad pitt is bald; he looks incredible HOT when he shaves his head.

but then again this is only 1 female perspective out of a billion
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i dont thik so. i want a female's opinion who is about 18-28 years old.HOW old are you?:D
 
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Sometimes i spyke up my hair, sometimes just spike up the front, sometimes kinda shorter. Not all haristyles go with your look. Best way to find the good hairstyle is to make an appoinment with a barber and ask him. Also ask some women for advice, women you know lke your mom, sister etc... LOl or just someone off the street, what you got to loose!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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shydude said:
Sometimes i spyke up my hair, sometimes just spike up the front, sometimes kinda shorter. Not all haristyles go with your look. Best way to find the good hairstyle is to make an appoinment with a barber and ask him. Also ask some women for advice, women you know lke your mom, sister etc... LOl or just someone off the street, what you got to loose!
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oh thanks, i asked a girl said spiky hair looks graet:confused:
 
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if you look like Brad Pitt then the hairstyle from Ocean's 11 is the best. But that's straight hair, so yeah I dunno.
 
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It's only hair, ask 10 different girls and you WILL get 10 different answers. It all depends on the girls taste.

Personally I HATE guys with long hair, I mean if you look like a female from the back not a good thing..:nono:

Do different hairstyles, it's hair it WILL grow back..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I choose my hairstyle called 'sex hair' (messed up hair that makes you look like you just got out of a woman’s bed)

from how to become an alpha male by john alexander
 
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Dude, since you said you look like brad pitt which i very much doubt coz if you did you wouldnt be in this forum and asking for our advice.

but if life seemed to work against you and youre god gave you hell except for a good face then just watch him in his movies. They wouldnt give him that hairstyle if it didint fit him.. just choose from his hair in his movies dude..
 
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umm hairstyles arent one size fits all. Figure out what'd look good on YOU.
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All that needed to be said.
 
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