"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cinch501

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Yeah it is cool, especially on shaving techniques and product reviews. Its also really good to see a site where people arent searching for a cure to baldness but actually taking the bull by the horns and shaving the lot off.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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JackPrescott

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Originally posted by sapphire
I'd say it only matters to the most superficial of women.

I agree with the other posters. If you are going to be bald, you might as well be a bald guy who is in really good shape. A bald guy with muscles like Van Diesel gets many women's panties wet.
And there are alot of hot girls who dig that tough look.
Hmmm. Very interesting. Think I'll get the razor out, and hit the f**k out of my bi's and traps today.
 

ElChoclo

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The real problem is when you've mostly got it, but are missing to some extent. If you had for eg. 80%, would you shave it off?

Plus as Donald Trump will tell you, there is a lot you do with the residual stuff, but then again, you probably need a billion bucks to get away with something like his. Besides where it is very gradual it is hard to be decisive.
 

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Hey ElChoclo. Ive shaved my hair with clippers. Didnt use a guard so it is v short. You can still notice that on the top off my head the hair is thinner but theres no bald spot. Despite this Ive decided Im gonna shave it bald. This means its my choice+not natures.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Cinch501
Hey ElChoclo. Ive shaved my hair with clippers. Didnt use a guard so it is v short. You can still notice that on the top off my head the hair is thinner but theres no bald spot. Despite this Ive decided Im gonna shave it bald. This means its my choice+not natures.
Doing things on your terms, I like that :)
 
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