"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hairline Fracture in Wrist

Tenzen

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yup, i'm stupid for not going to the doctor like 2 months ago when i woke up the next day after a club. What happen was that i dance like a maniac, some girls even call me a psycopathic dancer when i go to clubs, they all love it and it helps with my game too. Anyway i picked up alot of girls that night, and from what i remember i think i fell while holding one with my left arm, while my right hand caught the floor. No way to hear a snap or anything but i felt slight pain. I was drunk so whats pain? I kept making a fist because i kept feeling this pain hoping it would go away. LoL, so i wake up in the morning and it hurts like hell but no swelling or anything discolored i'm like whatever i'll stay off it for a week should heal... Week passes by i can't even pick things up with my right without it hurting. Like wow,..... 2 months later i still can't workout, my arms got smaller, I'm going to the doctor finally like on monday or tuesday.

I hope they cast it so it can heal properly cause i dont think i give it proper healing time without using it. The 1st month it would hurt to even use the mouse on the computer after awhile... This has really pissed me off, i never broke a bone in my body ever and to break it while dancing is just funny and stupid. I'm losing all my gains from working out ~ 2 years Argh....

So has anyone ever had a busted wrist, what should i expect at the doctor or what to expect at all?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alle_Gory

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You can still use the machines at the gym. Get someone to help you out and put the weight on your forearms. A towel or pad will help spread the weight. Leave the wrist alone!

Drink lots of milk and take vitamins. Should help the healing process.
 

Tenzen

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i dont work out in the gym i got a workout room, just free weights....
 

Alle_Gory

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Then now is a good time to get a gym membership for a couple of months.

You need machines for this. You can also use rubber bands, make sure they have nice large handles.
 
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