"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm a pretty hairy guy as far as shoulders, chest, legs, ass, etc. Should I shave it off, or just leave it? I'm leaning towards getting rid of it because it can get embarrassing sometimes but I don't want the nonstop upkeep of having to do that much shaving every day unless absolutely necessary.

What do you guys suggest for excess body hair? I used to shave constantly but now I don't anymore due to reasons and I'm actually a little nervous about getting naked in front of a chick again being hairy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dude... they say if you shave it ... it grows back thicker and faster

Try hair removal surgery

or

you can stop taking your clothes off!!

or

WAX!! *OUCH*
 

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Originally posted by SDFUandDie
dude... they say if you shave it ... it grows back thicker and faster
u do realize thats an age old myth.

or just leave it as is. if u decide it's a turn off towards women, then byh all means remove it.
 

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dude who cares!

I am hairy as ****! ok well no back hair yet! but I am hairy! and I keep it..why? well I am to lazy to shave..I get we need to keep hygine..and all that..but all this hair grows for some reason...in the summer I may shave it off..but winter..Im GRRRRIIIIZZZLLYYY baby!!!!
 

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:Imagine this:

You and your girl are fooling around...

She starts to kiss you neck and goes lower...

and lower....

*COUGH COUGH*

HAIRBALL
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Re: Hair is sign of masculinity

Originally posted by swampwiz
I'm sorry, but I just have to believe that deep down, sexually mature women find a hairy chest to be very attractive. Sure, popular culture may say that bare chested, androgenous boy-men like Leonardo di Caprio and Justin Timberlake are hip these days, but that's mainly for the teeny bopper crowd. A real woman who wants a real man will see that hair in the V of your collar and feel an extra attraction.

Heck, I can remember looking at Playboy magazine in the 80's that had ads for products that would help give a man a hairy chest.
androgenous would be a manly man, are u trying to say something referring to estrogen ?
wow, using big words is a no no when we dont know what they mean :p
 
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Originally posted by SDFUandDie
:Imagine this:

You and your girl are fooling around...

She starts to kiss you neck and goes lower...

and lower....

*COUGH COUGH*

HAIRBALL
imagine this, u find a women that likes hair men but oh no, you used laser hair removal,
well so u didnt get hair removal? imagine this shaving every other day at least for like an hour to get it perfect.
 

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Aside from a hairy body like bigfoot. just remember to keep that unibrow away!!
 

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According to the logic of these posters, a unibrow would be attractive as well since it would be "more manly. And shaving does not make hair grow thicker, faster, or in different colors damnit, it's an old wive's tale.
 

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Re: Re: Hair is sign of masculinity

Originally posted by huge_guy_pimpin
androgenous would be a manly man, are u trying to say something referring to estrogen ?
wow, using big words is a no no when we dont know what they mean :p
Try androgynous, which is having male and female characteristics or, in other words, not being clearly male of female.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by huge_guy_pimpin
imagine this, u find a women that likes hair men but oh no, you used laser hair removal,
well so u didnt get hair removal? imagine this shaving every other day at least for like an hour to get it perfect.
Most women dont like hairy men (I said MOST). Just like men dont like hairy women. How would you feel if you were laying on someones chest and you have hair stuck to your cheeks.. That's totally annoying!

P.S. Your hair always grows back. So when you do find a women that likes a hairy chest let it grown back. When you find a women that doesnt like hairy chest men she wont get turned off by all that hair if its already shaved off..

I am pretty sure if you waxed your hair it wont grow back as fast. Painful but thats the price of being a pretty boi!!!

Imagine women have to do that kinda stuff for men all the time.
 

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Yeah...I'm going to keep the chest hair because it's a pain in the ass to shave but the shoulders I will probably wax off. Damn expensive though, but I'm pretty sure it'll be better for me in the long run with chicks.
 

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Here in ireland just about every fella (as far as i know) darent shave their chest as theyd either get:

1) Called gay

2) Beaten up

3) Looked upon as weird/people who love themselves

I know its normal in the us but there its not.
 

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ok ... why would dudes look at each others chest hairs??

"Yo, dude that mofo got his chest hairs shaved... lets beat him up or call him gay"

:rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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