Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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SayWhat

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Hi guys

I have kind of a genetic disorder which results in the fact that since the age of 20 my hair is as grey as a retired man.

As a result I dye my hair every 2 months, when I'm around 40 years I will stop doing this, I just do it now as I think it's a bit too soon to be this grey.

The issue is I always go to a local known hairdresser which dyes and cut my hair because she's very cheap. I've had the same haircut for over a few years now, but want something more 'modern'. This hairdresser isn't really that up to date with modern hairstyles so this would make me have to go to another, more expensive, hairdresser.

If it was for the fact of just cutting my hair I wouldn't mind the extra cost, but for dying my hair at a professional salon it costs A LOT.

Is it really worth the extra money? I think I have a decent haircut now and see some celebs with this as well, but it can be better.

Also, should I just stop dying my hair? I feel not so confident after a month because you can see the grey come through the dyed color. But I think I would feel even less confident if I wouldn't dye it as probably girls will be looking and finding it weird that I'm grey at this age.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What's wrong with grey?
 

SayWhat

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Nothing, it looks great on most men, but I don't think about that if you're still under 30...
 

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I say get a clean haircut and leave the top a little long so you can style it with gel.

Just work with it.
 
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Many girls like that gray look or peppered gray.. It makes a man look more mature and experienced. For sure.

Best thing to do is the easiest things: Ask girls what they think about you wtih gray hair.. :)

Hope this helps
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does it get my chances down if I don't dye it anymore, as woman always want the best 'genetic' male... Yes George Clooney and others are still sex symbols with their hair, but they are at an age where it is 'normal'.
 
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