Hockey Playa
Master Don Juan
Considering electrolysis, or laser hair removal, anyone ever had one or the other, and whats the difference?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I'm doing laser treatments now...so I don't have to shave so much.Hockey Playa said:Considering electrolysis, or laser hair removal, anyone ever had one or the other, and whats the difference?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The place where I go charges about $130 a session. And it's like half-price after so many visits.sexy_kuta said:prices?
I have had both. Electrolysis was slower, more painful and costly but permanent. No re-growth was an upside.Hockey Playa said:Considering electrolysis, or laser hair removal, anyone ever had one or the other, and whats the difference?
Many men were there, I would guess it was a 50/50 split at the institute I used. Men with shaving issues and unwanted back hair is very common.spider_007 said:how about back hair?
did you see any men in the waiting room?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.