"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DarthJuan

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Hockey Playa said:
Considering electrolysis, or laser hair removal, anyone ever had one or the other, and whats the difference?
I'm doing laser treatments now...so I don't have to shave so much.

Electrolysis is where they stick needles into your pores or something. Not good.

Do the laser.
It hurts about as much as someone snapping a rubberband on your skin.
 

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prices?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sexy_kuta said:
The place where I go charges about $130 a session. And it's like half-price after so many visits.

You look like a cooked lobster after a session. Like a sunburn. But the red goes away after a couple of hours.
 

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Hockey Playa said:
Considering electrolysis, or laser hair removal, anyone ever had one or the other, and whats the difference?
I have had both. Electrolysis was slower, more painful and costly but permanent. No re-growth was an upside.

Laser was faster and easier but really not guaranteed permanent. You may have to go back for many, many sessions depending on skin tone and coarseness of hair.
(1 session = 3 treatments).

Many places offer free consultations, references and payment plans. Consult and call all the references, talk to the people in the waiting room and sit around longer and see people after treatments. Many people LOVE to discuss their procedures with others.

Cost varies too greatly to quote. For a man’s face, I am guess about $900 a session, you may need 3 sessions, so it really all depends on the person.

Good luck!
 

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spider_007 said:
how about back hair?

did you see any men in the waiting room?
Many men were there, I would guess it was a 50/50 split at the institute I used. Men with shaving issues and unwanted back hair is very common.

I do not think you would feel out of place at all. This clinic also had many male technicians that did treatments. I was given a choice many times if I wanted a male or female tech. That is something you may have to decide too.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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