"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hair question...

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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My hair's dark brown, pretty short, and I'm wondering what to do with it. I've tried to spike it but since I have a cowlick in front that the most copious amounts of gel cannot defeat, it ends up just looking wrong. And gooey. I'm thinking of growing it out, but that takes a while and looks dumb in between...spiking the front up has the same effect as trying to spike it.

so...any suggestions? The pic is from a while ago, imagine that guy a bit more built, with a bit more of a tan(a bit, not much...I'll work on that someday), slightly darker hair, and with a less stupid expression (heat-of-the-moment camera guy, and i was leaving a college summer course, so I was kinda ecstatic) and that's me.

http://www.blackcode.org/ThePsionicChild/images/alexLeavinSchool.jpg
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Omega

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Spike it, don't care how much gel it takes, just spike it. Use Dippity Do 9 or even 10 if you can find it, thats the stuff I use.
 

Runna13=)

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I'm growing out my hair right now as well. I don't gel my hair, but rather comb it into a puff of sorts. All I do is wet it and use a pick. I look kinda messy at times but I don't give a sheet cause who I am inside speaks for its darn self.
 

stormwriter

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Dude, i definitely second the spiking notion. It will give you a different "aura" than your dry, combed-down look.
My hair went down in front like yours. When you were describing your hair, it sounded just like mine, even the cowlick on the front of one side!
I put gel in mine, and get a blowdryer and try and blowdry the bangs up. The Caeser cut/Ricky Martin cut is still in style. (Granted, the messy/spikey look is more popular) However, if you could blow the bangs back, and spike/mess the rest - it will look cool! You'll feel stupid for awhile with such a radical change, but just try it!

Oh, and i used to have to blowdry my thick annoying bangs back, but once i started using a conditioner, my hair was more manageable. (god, i sound like a Nutresse commericial...)
Go buy a couple different pomades, or gel. I use the cheapest pomade ever, and it works pretty good. Its like half mousse/half gel. Its by Suave, in the little round can.

Dude, just try the blowdry and gel/pomade look, and see what happens!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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