“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hair question...

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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My hair's dark brown, pretty short, and I'm wondering what to do with it. I've tried to spike it but since I have a cowlick in front that the most copious amounts of gel cannot defeat, it ends up just looking wrong. And gooey. I'm thinking of growing it out, but that takes a while and looks dumb in between...spiking the front up has the same effect as trying to spike it.

so...any suggestions? The pic is from a while ago, imagine that guy a bit more built, with a bit more of a tan(a bit, not much...I'll work on that someday), slightly darker hair, and with a less stupid expression (heat-of-the-moment camera guy, and i was leaving a college summer course, so I was kinda ecstatic) and that's me.

http://www.blackcode.org/ThePsionicChild/images/alexLeavinSchool.jpg
 

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Spike it, don't care how much gel it takes, just spike it. Use Dippity Do 9 or even 10 if you can find it, thats the stuff I use.
 

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I'm growing out my hair right now as well. I don't gel my hair, but rather comb it into a puff of sorts. All I do is wet it and use a pick. I look kinda messy at times but I don't give a sheet cause who I am inside speaks for its darn self.
 

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Dude, i definitely second the spiking notion. It will give you a different "aura" than your dry, combed-down look.
My hair went down in front like yours. When you were describing your hair, it sounded just like mine, even the cowlick on the front of one side!
I put gel in mine, and get a blowdryer and try and blowdry the bangs up. The Caeser cut/Ricky Martin cut is still in style. (Granted, the messy/spikey look is more popular) However, if you could blow the bangs back, and spike/mess the rest - it will look cool! You'll feel stupid for awhile with such a radical change, but just try it!

Oh, and i used to have to blowdry my thick annoying bangs back, but once i started using a conditioner, my hair was more manageable. (god, i sound like a Nutresse commericial...)
Go buy a couple different pomades, or gel. I use the cheapest pomade ever, and it works pretty good. Its like half mousse/half gel. Its by Suave, in the little round can.

Dude, just try the blowdry and gel/pomade look, and see what happens!!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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