guys i need all the help you can give...i 'm feeling really bad with myself because of my hair, and girls notice that too which makes me even more unconfortable around them. since i was 21/22 that i had hair problems, my hair is very thin, and with 28 a patch can be seen in the crown of my head, i've seen worse cases cuz i still have some hair but not enough. i'm dating a girl who is younger than me and when i asked her about cutting it short ( like a 2 on the sides and top ) or totally shaving it clean,she said she wouldnt like it... well my parents also said they wouldnt like it, cuz they say it wouldnt go well with the shape of my head,etc... myself i dont really know if i want to shave it now, i seem to have lost the confidence i had
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Hair Problem.Feeling unconfortable around woman
- Thread starter NoMoreAFC
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Post up a pick bud, we'll give you some DJ views.
Generally though sounds like however bald or double chinned you are it won't make 10% of the difference having the right atitude will.
I used to feel the same way, I haven't changed tremendously physically, yet I'm fine pulling nowadays, the key is SKILLS and you just don't give a **** about rejection/criticism, you are the guardian of your thoughts and emotions, no one else.
If you are slighly overweight start working out, that will help with overall tone. I believe that lethecin injections are getting rid of stubborn deposits like under the chin. (no spot reduction flames please, it's true)
Generally though sounds like however bald or double chinned you are it won't make 10% of the difference having the right atitude will.
I used to feel the same way, I haven't changed tremendously physically, yet I'm fine pulling nowadays, the key is SKILLS and you just don't give a **** about rejection/criticism, you are the guardian of your thoughts and emotions, no one else.
If you are slighly overweight start working out, that will help with overall tone. I believe that lethecin injections are getting rid of stubborn deposits like under the chin. (no spot reduction flames please, it's true)
SuperGigalo is right. If, at 28 years old, you are worrying about what your parents think of your style then you gotta seriously look at yourself. Most people get over that by mid-teens. And if a girl told me she wouldn't like me to shave her head, I'd do it the next chance I got, otherwise you're giving her power over you without even fighting for it.
I have lost a lot of hair this year and it fuggin sucks. I seem to catch a lot of the $hit in life, but what are you going to do?
Believe me, it does no good feeling sorry for yourself because the parade of life keeps moving regardless of your situation!
Believe me, it does no good feeling sorry for yourself because the parade of life keeps moving regardless of your situation!
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
You're 28. Shave it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
dude,
**** what people think. thin hair and bald heads are a lot more common than you think! people are concerned about the way they look in that they think everyone else notices to a point it that it affects the way they interact socially.
as guys, we're primarily attracted to looks; women aren't. generally, they don't give a **** about the way you look as long as you are clean and not 4,000 pounds overweight. they care about WHO you are and HOW you make them FEEL. look at all the "sexiest men of the year", vin deisel, sean connery, bruce willis, brad pitt, tom cruise, etc.
bald or not, it doesn't matter. its WHO they are that matters. and what do all these guys have in common? they're their own men. MASCULINE men. when was the last time looks actually counted for girls? juniour high?
women are generally more concerned with their looks because they know how important looks are in the world of dating and attraction. but still, you always see a good number of women getting up on t.v. with crooked teeth and what not, and... well, obviously they don't care. if its not a big deal to them, i don't think a guy, one among millions in the same situation, should worry about some as natural and common as loosing hair.
**** happens. don't let it enter your mind. i'm TWENTY-ONE and have been loosing hair since i was SIXTEEN! **** it man, if its gonna happen, its gonna happen. worry and improve the thing that count, like skill and game.
...BTW, this is my first non-"i have a question" post. so let me know if this was helpful or not.:woo: :woo:
**** what people think. thin hair and bald heads are a lot more common than you think! people are concerned about the way they look in that they think everyone else notices to a point it that it affects the way they interact socially.
as guys, we're primarily attracted to looks; women aren't. generally, they don't give a **** about the way you look as long as you are clean and not 4,000 pounds overweight. they care about WHO you are and HOW you make them FEEL. look at all the "sexiest men of the year", vin deisel, sean connery, bruce willis, brad pitt, tom cruise, etc.
bald or not, it doesn't matter. its WHO they are that matters. and what do all these guys have in common? they're their own men. MASCULINE men. when was the last time looks actually counted for girls? juniour high?
women are generally more concerned with their looks because they know how important looks are in the world of dating and attraction. but still, you always see a good number of women getting up on t.v. with crooked teeth and what not, and... well, obviously they don't care. if its not a big deal to them, i don't think a guy, one among millions in the same situation, should worry about some as natural and common as loosing hair.
**** happens. don't let it enter your mind. i'm TWENTY-ONE and have been loosing hair since i was SIXTEEN! **** it man, if its gonna happen, its gonna happen. worry and improve the thing that count, like skill and game.
...BTW, this is my first non-"i have a question" post. so let me know if this was helpful or not.:woo: :woo:
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
I agree with h7amzeh. Losing your hair is NOT a big deal, unless YOU make it to be. Just keep it short and don't fuzz about it.