"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hair loss & testosterone.

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Thats a good point, however I have had doctors tell me that it is indeed possible that lifting could affect hairloss. Yet no clear cut answer. Getting on meds like propecia will however keep your DHT level down no matter what.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I read somewhere that masturbation in exsessivly large amounts trigger hair loss.

I suppose that the extreme opposite would also result in hairloss?
 

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i think that theres not such thing as real high levels of testesterone, bc your body will always control testesterone levels... for example if it goes really high, your body will decrease the production of testesterone, and if it goes really low it will produce more, and thats if your a healthy male (i assume you are).

but then if you take steroids which is testesterone your body has no way of controlling the levels, and thats when you suffer from hair loss, small balls, man boobs and all that nasty stuff....
 

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Does propecia or whatever also help stop hairloss or restore hair in the front as well? cause i read somewhere that rogaine usually only works for the crown and rarely for the front....


PS: i hope masturbation doesnt help hairloss
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Look guys, the fact is if you are going to lose your hair its going to happen no matter if you jerk off a lot, or pump iron, or smoke weed, etc. etc! There are NO CURES, only a handful of drugs that MIGHT slow down the process. But in the end you WILL lose it unless hair cloning becomes a reality (and is affordable).

I've gone through these same thoughts over and over... I started losing my hair at 18 and its been a slow but steady process ever since. For a while it devastated my self esteem and confidence, but I've learned not to let it get me down anymore. I just accept it. Change is innevitable and no matter what anyone says there are plenty of women out there who like bald guys. The thing that will turn a woman off is a wussy guy who can't accept reality. Think about it, its the difference between George Costanza from Seinfeld and Vin Deisel.

So fvck it, lift if you want, jerk it if you want... just get on with life.
 

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i've been losing hair since i was 14, i am 17 now, i think im that one kid in a million that started losing hair at 14, so like FLY GUY said, it is inevitable, i mean i didnt lift weights back then.

And the funny thing i noticed is that EVERYTHING has a side effect, if u ****en eat too much cerial it might cause cancer LOL
 

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dude...

If you're losing your hair, it's just more of a drive to get you to lift, bulk up, cut like a mutherfukker, and look giant.

Seriously, if you're any size at all, and semi-cut, and you shave your head bald, you'll look waaaay different, and much bigger. The site that really made me see this was

http://www.t-mag.com/nation_articles/256beast.jsp

and I really took note. I looked at johnstone fitness, and many before and after photos, and you'll notice that the shorter the hair, the bigger you look.

I decided there that if I ever start losing hair, it's all coming off.
 

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If you're losing your hair, it's just more of a drive to get you to lift, bulk up, cut like a mutherfukker, and look giant.

I decided there that if I ever start losing hair, it's all coming off.
Word.

My bro started losing his at 16 (it was VERY noticeable by then so he probably started losing it before that) which made me think about what I would do if I ever lost it.

I always saw bald men growing up in the 80s who would do comb-overs, or try the "ceasar" cut when they only had sparse covering of their scalp... and I would always ALWAYS think how lame and gross it looked even when I was a little kid! So I promised myself I would never do that, if I lost it I would shave it bald at the first sign.

So I did, and it was hard to make the transition at first because I didn't have the "tough guy" persona that seemed to fit with it. I made it much more difficult by fighting it. As soon as I accepted it things turned around BIG time.

I'd say I attract more women now than I did with hair because of my attitude and of course my image is different. Only thing is I seem to attract the girls that want a "bad boy" now :p
 

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When i was 20 my receding hairline made me look older. Girls said I looked like I was 30, even though I couldn't even buy beer yet.

Fortunately now that I am 30, it hasn't gotten too much worse

I wish I had asked my dermatologist the question about lifting and hair loss last week. Not that I'm going to stop lifting now!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DHT is not increased when you work out. Test converts to DHT, however, when you masturbate. There are things that prevent this process, like green tea, b-6, etc.
 

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I read recently that soy might inhibit DHT conversion as well.

More info on this would be greatly apppreciated. So if you play with yourself you lose your hair? Very interesting, could you post that source.
 

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Genetics
Testosterone
Stress

Those are the THREE ONLY things that make men go bald. All the rest is false. So feel free to wear a hat 24/7 it won't cause hairloss btw :)

Your teacher was right, but incomplete.

And by testosterone I don't think they mean 'if you masturbate alot', but simply 'if you are a man .. so have testosterone'. Because if you were to cut of your balls, you don't lose your hair ! So you DO have a choice :)
 

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curious...

What can be done to lessen Testosterone? ... and if your hair is already thin and going bald, how do u reverse the process? I mean.... lets say you are like 30 and your hair is really thin & stuff... What can u do (besides for taking those medicines like propecia) to make ur hair grow back nicely? ... like... things u can DO, besides for take medicine for it. :confused:


Laterz...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Heard flaxseed oil might help (ingesting it that is)
 

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listen guys

listen
hey, I'm new around here... maybe I could share some information, right?

ok... here's what I do know about hair loss...

I've seen plenty of people claiming that high levels of testosterone causes hair loss. That's not true. In fact, free testosterone in blood stream is good for you unless you are transsexual.

ok, now let's talk about dht conversion...
First, you should now dht is a powerful hormone and is responsible for the secondary male characteristics... yeah dht is the one that enlarges penis, and even induce hair growth. We should know that there's nothing you can do like masturbating a lot in order to induce more dht production and having a bigger penis. Penis size is a genetic factor and depends on how many dht receptors you have in the penis. You are born with it.
The problem with dht begins right after puberty. The same hormone that we hailed in our teens becomes a problem in old ages. When there's nothing more to grow, excessive dht enlarges the prostate and promotes hair loss.

I'm not sure about the relationship between masturbation and hair loss... A lot of fake sites like herballove, action love claims that over-masturbation causes physical disorders and plays a role in hair loss... my personal opinion: they sell fake information in order to expose their products.

I would like to hear your opinion guys...
 

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strange...this post about high testosterone relating to baldness goes against everything i assumed about testosterone and hair growth.

IN the past i've always assumed that testosterone levels would have some relation to promoting hair growth. Hence why people would inject themselves with external sources of testosterone to prevent hair loss.
 

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A lot of web sites are only trying to sell a product so it's not that helpful sometimes reading those pages. On many webpages it says vitamins like Zinc are said to control the testosterone from turning into DHT.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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