Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Found this on another forum...made me chuckle inside...


I met this lady a few months ago, she didn't want to give me her phone number when i asked, but offered me her email instead. Since then we have exchanged lots of emails (almost daily) and have been on a couple of dates (One lunch date and a dancing date). After the second date, she told me she had a few tough weeks ahead of her (she is in medical school and has a full time job at the same time) and she wouldn't be very available for anything.

A few days ago, after not hearing from her for a while, i called one of those flower shops and have them deliver her some really nice flowers (no roses) at her office.
She responded to me with an email where she thanked me for the flowers, praised the choice i made.
She then went on to say that her life is too crazy and she didn't think anyone can put up with her...She said, she couldn't offer me more than her friendship ...Then she concluded by asking me to let her know, if she was being too harsh ...
I would like anyone's input on the followings:
1. Was it ok for me to send her flowers at this stage? When should a man give a lady flowers? What's your experience?
2. Should i move on and/or continue looking elsewhere?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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just curious, what forum was that from?
 
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http://www.loveshack.org/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=5

I don't really come here for advice per se as I'm very confident and have the whole picking up girls thing down very well...I just like reading about other people's experiences and learning from the mistakes of others and giving my two cents where I think I can help. Found this forum in an old thread where someone was looking for a forum frequented by women. I went there and browsed around, and it's funny cause the women seem to be just as clueless as men. Gives a good insight into the dating scene as a whole. Worth checking out in my opinion...lots of AFC's and good examples of what not to do. Like one guy was out with a girl three times and wondering when he should tell her how much he cares about her and make their relationship exclusive. Ouch! Seriously thinking about making an account and giving some of these guys advice that will help them out.
 
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Ollie said:
Found this on another forum...made me chuckle inside...


I met this lady a few months ago, she didn't want to give me her phone number when i asked, but offered me her email instead. Since then we have exchanged lots of emails (almost daily) and have been on a couple of dates (One lunch date and a dancing date). After the second date, she told me she had a few tough weeks ahead of her (she is in medical school and has a full time job at the same time) and she wouldn't be very available for anything.

A few days ago, after not hearing from her for a while, i called one of those flower shops and have them deliver her some really nice flowers (no roses) at her office.
She responded to me with an email where she thanked me for the flowers, praised the choice i made.
She then went on to say that her life is too crazy and she didn't think anyone can put up with her...She said, she couldn't offer me more than her friendship ...Then she concluded by asking me to let her know, if she was being too harsh ...
I would like anyone's input on the followings:
1. Was it ok for me to send her flowers at this stage? When should a man give a lady flowers? What's your experience?
2. Should i move on and/or continue looking elsewhere?

Input welcome ... especially from ladies...
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Maybe he should ask himself if he was being a pvssy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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And the flowers were the icing on the cake, but the most disturbing thing to me was how she didn't give him her phone number at first and they exchange some friendly emails, go on a day "date" and dancing, after which she says she's busy and won't have time to do anything with him and even goes as far as to say all she's offering him is friendship, and for some reason he thinks she's into him. Some people live in an altered state of reality. If you follow the thread, he gets responded to by two girls, both who tell him that sending flowers was the right thing to do.
 
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