"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hahaha, i love this site

BeLoSH

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right here's why.....!

was texting a girl with whom i met around 3 weeks ago over the weekend, when she asked me if i was bored about a club that i always go 2 every week. this is the same club were we met by the way, and kissed originally. anyway, she asked me if i get bored of going so often, to which i replied "No, i love it in there, the bar men are now really good mates of mine and the doormen let me in for free, as am i special person you see" then i added that she should come there for my birthday, which is in 3wks.
She then replied quite shocked and sed at the end of the msg, "ill come out but i dont no if im special enough to be with a v.i.p like you"
I then filled her with this "Ill have to decide whether i like you enough when i next see you. Ill let you into a secret though, i hope i do, as i enjoyed the first time that we met, so doing it again will please me"

After that she was lovin it:

"oh wow thanks, really know how to make a girl feel special dont u!"

meetin her very soon (before my birthday)
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm glad that you found this site a help. It's good to see you're feeling increased confidence. Just make sure you read the boot camp, that will widen your horizons on just how deep the rabbit hole goes...
 

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I think she was being sarcastic?

not flaming... just considering a possibility.
 
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