Haha what a complete flake

[Kaim Argonar]

One week ago (I think you're a nice girl, you go out with me some time?)

"Sure why not! *gives MSN handle*"

I get added, but my IM gets unanswered, and this morning when I see her again at college

"Sorry, I wasn't expecting this last week, now I think I'm not that interested"

Eh I thought that I'd be very resentful, but surprisingly even if I feel kinda bad, I feel mostly amused to witness once more that girls don't know whatever the hell they want.

And now for how I'll go on about the coming weeks, I don't know. Looking for new prospects, that's the part where I feel a bit more disenchanted. Sure, girls are everywhere, but it's a pretty ****ty game to attempt an approach when none really seem to give you special signs of interest.

I could join more groups, but honestly most of the time when I join some kind of college group it's long, tedious, and I don't give a damn about the activities, and have no motivation to keep partaking in them when there isn't an interesting girl to target.

And I don't think I could hit some meat market.

 

[JackPrescott]

One week ago (I think you're a nice girl, you go out with me some time?)

"Sure why not! *gives MSN handle*"

I get added, but my IM gets unanswered, and this morning when I see her again at college

"Sorry, I wasn't expecting this last week, now I think I'm not that interested"

Eh I thought that I'd be very resentful, but surprisingly even if I feel kinda bad, I feel mostly amused to witness once more that girls don't know whatever the hell they want.

And now for how I'll go on about the coming weeks, I don't know. Looking for new prospects, that's the part where I feel a bit more disenchanted. Sure, girls are everywhere, but it's a pretty ****ty game to attempt an approach when none really seem to give you special signs of interest.

I could join more groups, but honestly most of the time when I join some kind of college group it's long, tedious, and I don't give a damn about the activities, and have no motivation to keep partaking in them when there isn't an interesting girl to target.

And I don't think I could hit some meat market.

It's a game, and if the woman is 1/2 ways attractive, she will reserve the right to be a flake. If you are on the singles scene, part of what you must deal with it flaky *****es, uninterested *****es, and the Worst of the Diseased Lepers, the "Lets Just be Friends" dumb ass *****es. Keep your chin up. Right now, I have just dealt with a Flake, my way of dealing with it was to "next" her ass, and instead of feeling sorry for myself, I started texting another woman who seems interested, and may get naked for me with enough shots. Then, there is an old FB of mine who I havent talked to in 3 years and I know where she works now.

 

[mutambo]

That wasn't that bad, she was straight up. I would have just laughed and said good for you. Recently got flaked on in the best way ever haha im still amused

 

[Kaim Argonar]

It's a game, and if the woman is 1/2 ways attractive, she will reserve the right to be a flake. If you are on the singles scene, part of what you must deal with it flaky *****es, uninterested *****es, and the Worst of the Diseased Lepers, the "Lets Just be Friends" dumb ass *****es. Keep your chin up. Right now, I have just dealt with a Flake, my way of dealing with it was to "next" her ass, and instead of feeling sorry for myself, I started texting another woman who seems interested, and may get naked for me with enough shots. Then, there is an old FB of mine who I havent talked to in 3 years and I know where she works now.

Still such smugness isn't at everyone's reach, since many don't have any such readily available alternative options when they're dealt a blow. I guess that at the start, she was surprised and flattered by the attention, and only faintly interested in me, and then it died out.

If I had concluded specifics for a date right on the first approach as I originally intended to, she would probably have flaked later and in more hurtful ways, so this is probably an outcome that's not so bad.

mutambo: I am the kind of person who'd do that, but I try to control my spite, especially in public, since in the past I've often been called assholish and overly negative. Yes it's a dog eat dog world and the golden rule is a load of bull****, but I guess that I like to still keep some humanity by not retaliating cheaply.

Otherwise I felt like chuckling a bit and saying something like "more proof that girls don't know whatever the hell they want", but because of what I described above I just said "OK, cool", kept my smile, and went away.

 

[mutambo]

Well **** it, I do it. I'm a total as.shole if I want to be one. I laugh to put out there, like saying; you are so wrong have a nice day kind of way. Did not mean laugh your guts out, just smile you know . So you did, great. I maybe have another definition of lauging, thats just me.

 

[YOUNG CASINOVA]

I wonder if flaking is just a B*tch test to see if you start complaining after you initially meet a chick and show interest. This is really starting to get popular now, and I hear alot of guys talkin about the same thing. I just act like I don't give a **** and then it seems like they eventually call back.... It's crazy out here!