"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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haha self-esteem +10

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so i asked this girl what she saw in me and she said
"you're smart, got a great sense of humor, you have a social life, you're good at sports, you're good at music, you've got a damn sexy body, and you're good to make out with that sound good?"
that just made my day :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sounds like you are well on your way to a fulfilling situation
 

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lol fulfilling situation?
 

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My vocabulary has put the words "relationship" and "happy times" in storage for now, as sterile as it sounds, it's the best I can do right now :D
 

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Her words made your day huh? lol your words are suppose to make her day not vice versa. This just shows with almost 1,000 posts you can still be a simp. If her words can make you feel this good about yourself, I wonder what you are going to buy her next week.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol what an ahole. this post doesnt make him a simp any more than someone being happy about a FR going well is. he's just sharing with a group of SUPPOSEDLY supportive guys something cool that happened. hell i love getting complements. call it what you want. its still fun to be complemented.
 

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Pipe down kids. If everyone here posted a compliment they recieved we all would pass the 10 post rule. How does one chick's words control the way you feel? Ask yourself this question before you reply to me shouldn't you already feel that way towards yourself. When a chick gives me a compliment shes telling me something I already know about myself, she isn't telling me something new. Whenever someone gives you a compliment see how you can use it to your advantage do not get over excited to a point that it made your entire day.
 

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SuavePlaya said:
Pipe down kids. If everyone here posted a compliment they recieved we all would pass the 10 post rule. How does one chick's words control the way you feel? Ask yourself this question before you reply to me shouldn't you already feel that way towards yourself. When a chick gives me a compliment shes telling me something I already know about myself, she isn't telling me something new. Whenever someone gives you a compliment see how you can use it to your advantage do not get over excited to a point that it made your entire day.
i think you're taking it too seriously. i know that i use the phrase "made my day" very often. probably TOO often and it begins to lose its meaning. realistically, this kid most likely thought "this is pretty cool of her to say," responded with a ****y "WHAT a suck up! ;)" and came on here to brag. thats what most of the FRs like this (if you can even call it that) are about. there's no need to shoot him down and say its bad for him to be happy about it. thats what me and CK are saying.
 

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SuavePlaya said:
Her words made your day huh? lol your words are suppose to make her day not vice versa. This just shows with almost 1,000 posts you can still be a simp. If her words can make you feel this good about yourself, I wonder what you are going to buy her next week.
you make no sense to me.
i know this site preaches that you should not be effected by women in any way, but get real man.
it's natural to want attention and acceptance from the opposite sex.
and LOL at what i'm gonna buy her next week.
she is my b1tch and honestly i'm getting sick of how needy she is.
i mean, i want to respect her, but i guess this is what the female version of an AFC is. she's hot though, so i'll keep banging her :D

my words do make her day.
and i used to pretend to not care about what women said and be this emotionless being, but that was because i was insecure.
now, i know that i can act naturally and still get chicks.
 
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