"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Haha, I need to stop bringing my phone to bars

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I'm so stupid.

Last night I was out drinking with some friends, who took off to this dance club that I'd rather not deal with. So, I stayed and had a few too many drinks on my own.

I ran into this girl I vaguely know, who was there with her boyfriend, but she was buying me drinks, so what the hell! Plus the bartender seems to be in love with me, as she kept hooking me up all night. More inebriation.

Anyway, I took out my phone to send a text to this girl I'm seeing. A bit later I realized that I had sent the message to this AW I was hanging out with a few months ago. Her name was right above the other one. I don't know why I still cling to her number. Things ended pretty poorly with us. Definately not on good terms, and I haven't seen her in months.

To make things even worse, I sent another message to her, telling her to pay no mind to my previous message (which was in Spanish anyway, so I doubt she understood it).

Now I feel like an idiot, and she, the humorless ice bltch that she is, didn't even send a response.

So yeah, take the battery out of your phone when you're out drinking or something.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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or how bout you simply make sure you send text messages to the right person. having your phone on you at bars is key. then you don't have to grab a pen if you get a girls #. don't blame your mistake on having your phone on you.
 

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"To make things even worse, I sent another message to her, telling her to pay no mind to my previous message (which was in Spanish anyway, so I doubt she understood it).

Now I feel like an idiot, and she, the humorless ice bltch that she is, didn't even send a response."

Either that or she was doing exactly what you said and paying no mind!:D
 
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