"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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haha evil women...

moneyisking

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hey hows it going for you guys.

well, let me tell you my situation. as i began the semester in college, i met this chick and kind of gamed and flirted around with her. her response was good, and she seemed to like me. but one day, i basically asked her to come over to chill and watch movie with me, and she texted me back asking me what movie we were going to watch. i told her whatever i find on web, and she didn't text me back.

well, there it is. she blew it and the chance is never coming back. i stopped texting her and when i saw her, i just said "hey" and that was it. I totally let go of sexual intentions with her. now this girl is trying to make me jealous. she sits in front of me on purpose and flirts with other dudes, and turns back to me and says hi looking as if she didn't notice me. she walks by when i am eating and purposely sits with some random dudes near my table and chat.

maybe i am over-reacting or something, but i can kind of feel that she is doing this to get me messed up in the head and jealous. but of course, thanks to my brothers here, that sh!t is not going to work on me ha! i need to go out there and get to know some more girls. as of now, there is no sexual encounter going on in my life at all. well, women are not the most important part of the life, so i wish to keep myself calmed about it and keep improving myself and the game. i am not a big ladies man or player, but i know i can be one that get any girls i want one day. just felt like scribbling some lines b/c i felt little lonely (no homo).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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j0n24

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You shouldnt feel lonely since you have your priorities in check, well I hope you do anyways haha.

Plus you should feel good, you cut off contact with her and now instead of fawning over her like probably lots of other guys have done in the past she is a little caught off guard so she is trying to get you to reinitiate contact and she is going to try to lead you on and then "Dump," You again.

You played it pretty well for not being a ladies man.

I say forget the girl, dont give her the time of day and hell if it was me I'd try to avoid contact as much as possible and IF you need to have contact make it short.

Good luck.
 
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