"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Haha! Abercrombie loser asks me to leave.

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you stupid child.

that's already been answered by me. and you had nothing to say except evading it and bringing up a different point.

that manager had more balls than the other managers. besides all of the other managers for abercrombie are usually chicks or gay dudes.

and yes we know abercrombie has stuck up people. but they're only stuck up to losers who can't talk to people like a normal person.
Answered quite poorly. Manager dude looked pretty gay though. I'm not evening saying anything to that "talk like a normal person" thing because it's stupid. Situations basically I'm walking around being my normal, fun, social self and dude kicks me out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ElStud, just because you didn't get kicked out before means nothing. You are probably seen as a creep everywhere but nobody ever has the cajones to say anything, maybe just because they don't want to seem racist. You should learn from this experience and alter your ways.

Acting all "high energy" and "fun" in a clothes store is out of place weird behavior. It doesn't sound to me like you've been getting any good results anyway. Why keep up the same thing that doesn't work? That's a fool's way. Case in point, learn from your mistakes and grow.
 

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Yapper said:
ElStud, just because you didn't get kicked out before means nothing. You are probably seen as a creep everywhere but nobody ever has the cajones to say anything, maybe just because they don't want to seem racist. You should learn from this experience and alter your ways.

Acting all "high energy" and "fun" in a clothes store is out of place weird behavior. It doesn't sound to me like you've been getting any good results anyway. Why keep up the same thing that doesn't work? That's a fool's way. Case in point, learn from your mistakes and grow.
Oh well that's too bad, because I'm a high energy and fun guy. That's how I act around my friends, that's how I act around female friends and that's how I act when I go out. It's funny you're talking to me about getting nowhere, Mr. "Social fvcking anxiety". It's just funny you would say that, that's all.
 

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ElStud, don't let them get u down. Don't take everything so personal on here. It's just an internet forum. You are doing great! Get a life you psychopath!
 

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Oh well that's too bad, because I'm a high energy and fun guy. That's how I act around my friends, that's how I act around female friends and that's how I act when I go out. It's funny you're talking to me about getting nowhere, Mr. "Social fvcking anxiety". It's just funny you would say that, that's all.
Yeah but are you laying the babes? Correct me if I'm wrong but it doesn't sound to me like you're getting any. I thought the point of this was to get some puzzy. If you're so stuck in your ways that you refuse to change then your actions will continue to equal a dry penis.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=128892
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=128295
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=127861
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=127071

At one point I said...
Me: Do you like McDonalds?
Girl: Yeah.
Me: But you don't look like the girl who would be good in bed.
Girl: Okay.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125365
Me: Hey, I'm doing a music survey and I was wondering, what type of music do you listen to?
Her: Oh, I listen to anything.
Me: Yeah, you look like the type girl who would be into country music. Yeah, I could see it now, you get from school, go upstairs and you start dancing to that stuff.
Her: Oh no, I'm definitely not like that.
Me: So you're definitely not that type of girl. I see.
Me: Have you ever been to any amusement parks?
Her: No.
Me: No? Haha, I could see it now, you and me would go on one of those small rides at Cedar Point and when the ride falls, you would throw up on me.
[She makes this funny face]
Her: No, I'm definitely not that type of girl.
Me: So do you cook?
[I kino her, putting my arm first on her shoulder, then putting it around her]
Her: No.
Me: So you wouldn't be able to cook for me?
Her: No.
Me: So what's your name again?
Her: Asila.
Me: Alright Asila, well, my girlfriend is waiting so I have to go now.
Me: Do you have a number?
Her: I actually lost my phone.
Me: I see.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=124947

[Tap one girl on her shoulder]
Me: Hey, how's it going?
Girl: Oh, fine.
Me: So would you say it's going good?
Girl: Yeah.
Me: Hmm... well usually when a girl tells me that it means there in a bad mood or woke up on the wrong side of the bed or something.
Girl: No, I'm in a good mood.
Me: And why would you say you're in a good mood?
Girl: I don't know, I just am.
Me: So would you say it's hot out here?
Girl: Yes.
Me: So do you go to the beach?
Girl: Yeah.
Me: You look like the kind of girl---
[Girl 2 interrupts]
Girl: Well, I have to go.
Me: You have to go?
Girl: Yeah.
okay, you don't have to respond to "talk like a normal person". these are all the old FRs... you have no way you could say you don't talk like a normal person.

talking about mcdonalds, talking about being a rockstar one day, talking about prince, saying "prove you like this music and dance for me".

you're such a stupid child. you pretend my answers aren't good enough, but i have plenty of people saying the same thing i said first.

admit defeat already, and quit evading my replies with... "your answer was poor, point is i was being fun and energetic and this loser abercrombie guy kicked me out because i'm black." because that's not even true. get your vagina out of a knot and use logic for once.
 

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Yeah but are you laying the babes? Correct me if I'm wrong but it doesn't sound to me like you're getting any. I thought the point of this was to get some puzzy. If you're so stuck in your ways that you refuse to change then your actions will continue to equal a dry penis.
No and you're not either nor do I really even care if you are or not. But got 3 girls who are very interested me, if only as friends for now. One of those girls could become a typical "mate". But you you got nothing.

And Michele, shut up. No one cares what you have to say, for it is not relavent.
 

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And Michele, shut up. No one cares what you have to say, for it is not relavent.
great, too dumb to make an answer and too dumb to realize everything i've said was totally relevant. you admitted defeat.
 

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I'm a black guy and I think your story sounds weird. First off, why on earth would you go to Abercrombie to "chill out"? And on top of that, go to "chill out" 3 times in one day? It's a retail store, you're supposed to go in there to buy something, it's not a lounge to socialize. They had every right to ask you to leave. Now if they were letting whites do the exact same thing you were, then yeah, it was racist, but going on just the info you provided, it sounds like they were within their right to ask you to leave. I've have found you weird myself if I were working there.
 

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great, too dumb to make an answer and too dumb to realize everything i've said was totally relevant. you admitted defeat.
Whatever l'Fagangelo. When you posted those "FR's" to try and prove me wrong, you ignore the fact that none of those girls were here when I got kicked out and neither was the assh*le who kicked me. And the one FR I had with a girl at Abercrombie that day, went rather well and I know SHE didn't tell the manager guy because I was in there for like 15 more minutes before I left and I didn't hear anything. The only possibility is this one b*tch who was talking to me and said "I'll be right back". I knew she wasn't going to be back so I turn around and go towards the front and I see this manager assh*le. Haha, yeah, but that's all past, I learned my lesson and that's simply not to go to Fagercrombie and Bitch anymore.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ElStud said:
No and you're not either nor do I really even care if you are or not. But got 3 girls who are very interested me, if only as friends for now. One of those girls could become a typical "mate". But you you got nothing.

And Michele, shut up. No one cares what you have to say, for it is not relavent.
Ahaha, "very interested if only as friends for now"... that's the infamous friend zone, buddy. Thank you for being honest and proving my point.

And this isn't about me. Stop getting so defensive and trying to shift attention from yourself. Shit's not happening for you man. Admit you've got a long ways to go and don't keep beating the dead horse.
 

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Ahaha, "very interested if only as friends for now"... that's the infamous friend zone, buddy. Thank you for being honest and proving my point.

And this isn't about me. Stop getting so defensive and trying to shift attention from yourself. Shit's not happening for you man. Admit you've got a long ways to go and don't keep beating the dead horse.
Hey as long as they keep calling me Big Pimpin' the friend zone is okay with me.
 

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And Michele, shut up. No one cares what you have to say, for it is not relavent.
Dude, Arc was the first one to tell you what me and a select few of us here thought about your suspiciously one sided story. You go into that store on a constant basis and don't buy sh!t. You were creeping the employees out with your "fun and energetic" personality but I bet you just came off as annoying. Overall ElStud you were just LOITERING(mall rat).
 

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Go back in there, and get banned again. Then talk to a lawyer and sue A&F.


ROFL. That was just a joke.
 

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When someone who's not an ignoramous wants to post I'll listen, until then. You aren't listening to me and therefore I will not listen to you, ignoramouses. You talk about me being one sided, but are you not one sided? BS. Mike is done arguing with you children about something you know nothing about.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When someone who's not an ignoramous wants to post I'll listen, until then. You aren't listening to me and therefore I will not listen to you, ignoramouses. You talk about me being one sided, but are you not one sided? BS.
this kid is hopeless, still hasn't changed his attitude since he was viper. the only difference is that he's making approaches that he won't learn from because he thinks he's always right.

are you like this in person? from this quote above i can only see you as a 11 year old child who would run to his room and lock himself in there because no one would understand him.
 

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I give this thread 7/10

try harder troll!
 

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Haha, are you guys serious? If you guys are trying to ruin my thread, you're going to have to try harder. The slick reality is that you guys aren't right, but... keep trying to make insane theories to prove me wrong. Really, this could be fun, tell me all your insane theories about how I'm wrong. Meanwhile I'll be doing something productive and really, make up some really bogus theory, I need a laugh. If someone mature wants to come up here that's not ignorant, please do post and save my thread from all the idiocy of the KBJ's.
 

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Hey as long as they keep calling me Big Pimpin' the friend zone is okay with me.
You gonna repeat that over and over in your head as you sit alone and naked, balls in one hand and shaft in the other?
 

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Haha, that's it! Keep those insane theories going!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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