"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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had to cancel date with foreign chick who speaks no english

pete101

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i am really ill so had to cancel 2 dates today but the 2nd 1 was with a girl who speaks no english at all.. i can speak a little bit of her language but not enough to communicate with her.

we are at a language school learning a different language (not english) so we're both beginners.

i set up a date with her today this evening at a specific time 2 days ago when her friend was there to help translate. she said to call but i was like 'well she wont understand if i do call haha'

so they told me to call her friend but i said to make it saturday 9pm anyway.

so i cancel just now by calling her friend 1st saying im ill, she said she'd call her friend who im suppose to be seeing, so im on the assumption that she knows.

i also send a text to my date in english saying i'll take her out another time but i know she wouldn't understand.

she texts me back in her language saying 'i cannot come' but i did not know this at the time so tried calling her she didn't pick up, then i called her friend to see what it meant then she told me and told me that her friend did not pick up when she called so actually had no idea i was cancelling.

it doesn't matter about the language barrier, this girl had a date with me, made other plans and cancelled even tho i actually cancelled 1st, it seems like a power struggle.

because i f'd up and made that call after she told me she could not make it (i did not know that at the time) that must look like to her that she told me no, and i still persisted trying to call her and get her to come out right?

would u say seeing this girl is pointless if we can barely communicate with each other/set up a date?

shes super hot but i think this just wont work, plus i DLV'd myself by accident by calling her after my text but this was not my fault as i did not know what her text meant..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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xdreamz

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its awesome gaming girls in a foreign language.
 
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