Had our first fight

[guitaronfire411]

I'm trying to kill any expectations from this. This girl is a messed up player.

She was sick yesterday and flaked from our meet-up last night when I called at night. Not cool. I didn't make a big deal out of it and she phoned me up this morning, saying that she could meet me at noon on Friday for coffee.

I wanted to meet in her room or the TV lounge and from there she tried to force the venue to a coffee place. I told her I didn't like it and countered with meeting up at the library instead. She accepted it.

My ex asked me whether I wanted my stuff back or not, even though before I said before that I did. I mentioned my movies and speakers and she asked whether I wanted the blanket that I gave her for Xmas back. I said no, it was a gift.

She then came out of nowhere and told me that she would be taking care of her cousins this weekend. I thought that was weird and borderline disrespectful -- just like trying to give the blanket back.

Got a few opinions back already and people are saying that she wants me back. Thoughts?

 

[guitaronfire411]

Wow, my ex is a super-*****. So glad I wrote her off when I did. Got this message:

I will be in the cafe in the library at 11am cuz i will be meeting someone there... you can meet me there... if you aren't there by 1125.. i will be gone to class.

So I replied with: "I can't make it. Have a good time! "

 

[guitaronfire411]

This relationship stuff is all new to me and the feedback I get here is beyond awesome. I hope the vets don't mind filling me in on areas that I haven't experienced yet by replying to this thread. How should I play from here?

HMm... Just got this...I suspect she isn't having much luck getting other guys into her:

The reason I've been avoiding you its because I was really sick and I also didn't know how I feel about you and me. I just don't really know what to say.
I was really hurt. I understand where you were coming from but I think we should have communicated better.
Call me whenever you want... I have 6 hours of class tomorrow thou

How should I play it. oh PUA vets?

To summarize:

not enough affection + not enough good-feelings = GoF411 break-up.

I also said after giving her the reason why I broke it off, that if we communicated better, then things might have been different. Kind of funny how women reflect what you say so the blame is on you, huh?

 

[DamHE]

listen to me dude. just listen. i rarely relationship advice and come every once in a while to visit so if im leaving a reply then its pretty important..usually just hang out in anything else.

FORGET THIS GIRL. FORGET HER!!!!!!!!!!! the only reason you keep updating and making new posts is because you want her back.

man the **** up and move the **** on you go to college man there is tons of ***** and you basically **** blocked yourself for 1 month