"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Had my first ever four-some & picked up a girl

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It was a borrrrrrrrrrrring evening, and day, all seemed to be crap. I was messaging online to chicks, trying to hook up, but knowing it's all crap. Then I drove to McDonalds, and on my way a friend called, said there is a chick who wants two d1cks in her, am I in? Of course I'm in! I picked up my friend, and by this time number went from 2 d1cks to 3 d1cks. We come to the chick and drink some beer, four of us, then we all one by one go to shower, and then to bed room. We were sitting around like kids, I had to start. There was lot's of sucking, licking, double penetrating with stuffed mouth, and *** swallowing. It was kind of like what you see in porno. :rockon:

Then around 4 am I drove my friends back, and decided to finally get some McDonalds, and on my way a chick is stopping my car like a cab, she said 'I want a cig, I'm not after cab'. I tell her, no cigs with me, all ended. She closes door and I go. Then something hit me, idiot, turn around. I turn around and go into opposite lane to talk to her, and ask where you going, I tell her I'm going to McDonalds, let's go with me. She agrees. She was a bit drunk. I buy her cigarettes and beer, and we go to McDonalds, I get to eat, then I buy her another beer, and we chat. Turns out she broke up with a guy, they were living together in one apartment. End result I get her home to me and we drink with her one bottle of cognac. She's piss drunk, I'm not so much, we end up putting on me first her tank top, then her bra, I have a pic with me in her bra and her next to me with her big tits. Crazy! Turns out she's 3 months pregnant, has big tits. Anyway, when time gets to sex, she doesn't want to, I force her a little bit, spread her legs, hold her arms. I penetrate her for a bit, but my d1ck went limp from all that fvcking before, so we just go to sleep.

Now it's the next day, 7 pm, she's still sleeping here.

Oh almost forgot! My bathroom was dirty, she ended up cleaning it for me, now everything is nice and shiny!

And my laywithoutcondom count went up +2 :(


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When door closes for us, right that hour God opens up a new door for us, but we often don't see this new door because we are busy staring at the closed one.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You gotta be one of the most questionable posters of sosuave.
 

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What the ****...
I hope this crazy story isn't true.
 

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Your straightness is questionable any time your sexual encounters involve another man. In fact since there was more men than women it's likely you are 75% homo.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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backseatjuan said:
There was lot's of sucking, licking, double penetrating with stuffed mouth, and *** swallowing. It was kind of like what you see in porno. :rockon:
So basically you were rubbing d!nks with three other guys. Coooool!!! :rockon:

backseatjuan said:
Anyway, when time gets to sex, she doesn't want to, I force her a little bit, spread her legs, hold her arms. I penetrate her for a bit, but my d1ck went limp from all that fvcking before, so we just go to sleep.
Sounds like rape to me???

backseatjuan said:
And my laywithoutcondom count went up +2 :(
With the crew you are hanging with you better check your STD count as well.
 

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backseatjuan said:
She was a bit drunk. I buy her cigarettes and beer, and we go to McDonalds, I get to eat, then I buy her another beer, and we chat. Turns out she broke up with a guy, they were living together in one apartment. End result I get her home to me and we drink with her one bottle of cognac. She's piss drunk,
Nice job. You got a girl that isn't thinking soundly so drunk she doesn't know what is going on then:

backseatjuan said:
Anyway, when time gets to sex, she doesn't want to, I force her a little bit, spread her legs, hold her arms. I penetrate her for a bit, but my d1ck went limp from all that fvcking before, so we just go to sleep.
So you are a rapist? I mean you admit you held her arms down as you forced open her legs after she said she doesn't want you to. Sounds like a clear case of rape to me by inebriating the woman before the sexual assault (And take a peak at my job description on my profile.) I hope she realizes what you did and reports you as by your own admission it sounds like she could charge you with rape as what you did to her sounds like rape.
 

I'm in the Mood

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Sounds like you had fun, good for you!

What the fvck is with all the jealous posters....
 

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Slickster said:
So basically you were rubbing d!nks with three other guys. Coooool!!! :rockon:


Sounds like rape to me???

With the crew you are hanging with you better check your STD count as well.

OMG, man! You had me rolling with that. Nice touch with using the rocker emote, haha.

Anyways, you definitely raped that chick....:woo:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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We're sleeping 2nd day straight. She's 22 and has big great tits. It was definitely forced but not rape, if it was rape she'd hate me. Since she's still with me and everything is straight, it wasn't rape. Although I admit it, it looked like a rape.
 

I'm in the Mood

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San Jose California said:
Yea, those guys are overly tripping about that being rape. However, FOURSOME WITH THREE DUDES
Yes it's a sausagefest, but so what? They were liquored up too, so they could care less.

This homophobic thing is too wired into our society, I believe. You make it sound like the 3 dudes were fvcking each other. They weren't. They were having fun with the girl all at once, it wasn't like they were sucking each others d!cks.

I must admit, I have to admire a girl who has the sexual skills to please / take on 3 dudes at once. It's called being comfortable with your sexuality and the sexuality of others.
 

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If you like sharing a woman with other men at the same time, more power to you.

Any other involved parties in a multiple sex situation will be strictly women or I won't play.

It's the way I'm wired.
 

I'm in the Mood

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San Jose California said:
And you act like a threesome or foursome with more than one dude, isn't a totally WTF situation. IT IS! WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH GUYS that have ever had one. Sorry, but that's the way I look at it, and I am normal, not you.

Yea yea, you can feed me all this bs, but it's not gonna change my mind. Having a threesome or a foursome with another dude in it, is fucked up. End of discussion.
I think it really goes beyond (or you could say it falls short of) intimacy and becomes a 'sport of pleasure.' Now that I think of it, why would anyone want to "be with" a girl who's been fvcked by 3 guys at once? Maybe a girl like this has very low self-esteem too. Either that or it's her fantasy to be gangbanged. Maybe it is fvcked up...I guess I won't ever know until I try...It sounds fun to me, but only as long as no one leaves the situation with a bad impression. You kinda have to just not care I guess, which is ironically an attractive trait?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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San Jose California said:
And you act like a threesome or foursome with more than one dude, isn't a totally WTF situation. IT IS! WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH GUYS that have ever had one. Sorry, but that's the way I look at it, and I am normal, not you.

Yea yea, you can feed me all this bs, but it's not gonna change my mind. Having a threesome or a foursome with another dude in it, is fucked up. End of discussion.
I'm with you on this. I'm sorry but all training a girl is one thing but all at once? Jeez man that's whack.
 

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Did you notice the OP's name is "Backseat" Juan? Lol.
 

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San Jose California said:
Fine, go ahead and think you look sophisticated saying a girl that's had a foursome with three dudes is attractive. People like me are totally content being normal.
Its not normalcy but the fact she took 3 dudes at once and the OP thinks that was cool along with probs loving every moment of it with the other two guys. OP sounds gay brah.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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