"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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had dinner with an ex last night...

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Chromeo

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OP I'm sure she has girl friends, if your so suave go f**** em and her current bf's ex.
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she doesnt really have any girlfriends.

I will never allow her to be my girlfriend again.

her behavior is unacceptable. I wonder what she told her guy she was doing while she was with me. Her lying and manipulating is unbelievable.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So you're holding on to that time y'all hooked up 3-4 months ago? Why are you wasting your time with this girl? What's been going on since that hook up 3-4 months ago?
 
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So you're holding on to that time y'all hooked up 3-4 months ago? Why are you wasting your time with this girl? What's been going on since that hook up 3-4 months ago?
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uh... me sleeping with other women

guys this ex tries to keep me in her life and I ignore her as much as possible. I was simply commenting on the fact that it sucks that she has changed for this guy willingly, and how when I was with her I TOLD her she needed to change and it pushed her away

valuable lesson learned
 
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really dont understand why this girl tries to keep me around.

she pretty much seems to crap on every guy she dates. Do you think this is because she comes on really fast to guys and none of them are a challenge to her so she gets bored?

she tells me "its nice to have someone to come home too"

but I dont understand why she cant be faithful. I think her seeing me is wrong and she obviously does to since she is hiding it.

just curious to know what you guys think makes this girl tick. but I really need her out of my life, just the fact that I am wondering what makes her tick annoys me.

I either go along with being her friend and deny any of her advances on me, or tell her to Fvck off cuz shes gonna end up ruining another relationship
 
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Chromeo said:
but I dont understand why she cant be faithful. I think her seeing me is wrong and she obviously does to since she is hiding it.

just curious to know what you guys think makes this girl tick. but I really need her out of my life, just the fact that I am wondering what makes her tick annoys me.

I either go along with being her friend and deny any of her advances on me, or tell her to Fvck off cuz shes gonna end up ruining another relationship
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Stop seeing this chick... ALTOGETHER.
She's your ex... move on. It's pointless.

And what's even more pointless is trying to find the logic in an emotional creature who obviously has absolutely NO idea what logic is.

Why do you care what makes her tick? Just keep spinning your other plates.
Just get her out of your life. Don't be her friend... you'd be basically her Orbiter #1 and it's her way of controlling you.

And your male, you WON'T always be able to deny the advances. You will have a weak point where the whole universe comes together and SHE'LL be there waiting like a predator stalking the prey and you will fall for it.

Just avoid this completely.
She's not worth your time and definitely not worth ours to post about... if ya catch my drift.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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