"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Had an icecream with her....feel good about myself

LittleBigOne

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 29, 2005
Messages
189
Reaction score
0
Location
Netherlands
Today i grabbed my balls. I walked up to the girl i like at work (see previous thread). I just finished work and was seeing her in her office being busy with paperwork. I told her she needed a coolingdown and that she had to come over with me for having an icecream. Without hesitation she said yes so we went to the other side of the street and buyed icecreams and were eating them together and on our own in the patio of the building where we work. I asked her for a kiss....duh an icecreamkiss (pushing eachothers icecreams to eachother). It made her laugh and we talked comfortable about random stuff. Then i ended the conversation by saying i had to go home.
Now, i feel good about what i did and also about her response. I am wondering now if she sees this as me just being friendly or as a sign of interest of me. And is it a sign of interest from her to leave her work and come over with me? What you think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,657
Reaction score
6,614
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
Actually, that food kiss thing is a great idea. I'm going to try it. It fits my personality to a T.

That can really influence a women to desire and anticipate a kiss from you.
 
Top