"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Had an icecream with her....feel good about myself

LittleBigOne

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Today i grabbed my balls. I walked up to the girl i like at work (see previous thread). I just finished work and was seeing her in her office being busy with paperwork. I told her she needed a coolingdown and that she had to come over with me for having an icecream. Without hesitation she said yes so we went to the other side of the street and buyed icecreams and were eating them together and on our own in the patio of the building where we work. I asked her for a kiss....duh an icecreamkiss (pushing eachothers icecreams to eachother). It made her laugh and we talked comfortable about random stuff. Then i ended the conversation by saying i had to go home.
Now, i feel good about what i did and also about her response. I am wondering now if she sees this as me just being friendly or as a sign of interest of me. And is it a sign of interest from her to leave her work and come over with me? What you think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Atom Smasher

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Actually, that food kiss thing is a great idea. I'm going to try it. It fits my personality to a T.

That can really influence a women to desire and anticipate a kiss from you.
 
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