Had a youngun past few days...why? so weak, so woman..

[Poonani Maker]

We were going out yesterday, then she fudges or retraces (she's 26), then she's good to go, then she doesn't want to be with me, the man, then when she senses that I've "given up" on getting her to come, she starts texting that she wants to go again. It's as if she realizes that I've given up on her, so she starts feeling empowered to ask me to be with her, that she Wants me, now all of a sudden, because I've given up on dealing with her wishy-washiness.

Who can deal with this bullsh!t? and it's not just her, it's a Lot of women who YANK you around like that. All about the most indecisive creature on the planet: woman. I try to decide FOR her and that's about the ONLY way for you, as a man, to get into her pants. You practically have to FORCE her to your will, cause she won't lift a mutherfvckin finger.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

I'll save about eight posters out there a waste of a post.

"women that like you won't confuse you."

"your princess is in another castle."

"would she do that to Brad Pitt???????"


Annnd, spin plates.



don't give her so many chances. Don't put up with the wishy washy behavior. Let her know right away that's not going to fly.

You: Hey you want to go out tomorrow?
Her: ummmm, I don't know, I got this thing and my friend....blah, blah, blah.
You: Yes or No?
Her: Nah, sorry.
You: No problem, maybe some other time.

2 hours later.......

Her: hey, I changed my mind, lets go out tomorrow! It'll be fun!
You: I already made other plans.
Her; Oh..... really?
You: maybe some other time.
Her: o...k.....

 

[floydb25]

Could be to see what they can get away with, how easy you succumb to their wants, and how much control they have over you. Of course, they only do it to guys they know or sense they can push around. Or they're simply spoiled and immature.

Dealt with this a lot. Just gotta stand your ground, not play their crap games or tolerate BS. Don't let them dictate everything, and make it all about them. A lot of women are naturally retarded and childish, and you almost need to show 'em who's boss. Of course, they'll complain that you're being too "controlling" when you do. I think they love the idea of being free and independent and retarded, and pissing everyone off with their BS - only to whine and complain when they can't get their way.

Definitely watch out for retards.

And what P&V said.

 

[Checkmate12]

Her: hey, I changed my mind, lets go out tomorrow! It'll be fun!
You: I already made other plans.
Her; Oh..... really?
You: maybe some other time.
Her: o...k.....

This. Would you ever yank an hb of high value around like this and expect her to still be willing and available when you change your mind again? Absolutely not. She would have too many options to put up with that wishy-washy bullcrap, and so do you. Be stern and tell her too bad, you've already made other plans because she couldn't make up her dang mind. Besides, you only want to go out with a girl who really wants to be out with you in the first place. You don't wanna waste your time or money on a girl who doesn't know if she even wants to be there. :kick:

Now make sure the only way she gets a date is if she really works for it.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Could be to see what they can get away with, how easy you succumb to their wants, and how much control they have over you. Of course, they only do it to guys they know or sense they can push around. Or they're simply spoiled and immature.

Right this is the initial stages, the setup, which is why I Never start off succumbing. The Start is everything, control, is what it's about. If I give in, and do As she says, and everything, suggest more going outta my way to her right off the bat, then I'm fvcked. You know when it's gonna be a waste of time right off the bat. She was hot though. She got all let's be together when she knew that I didn't want to be with her anymore (because of the flakery).

She was probably the mentalness (I know not word) of this person, a very attention-seeking HOE: http://www.cnn.com/2013/08/26/showbiz/music/miley-cyrus-mtv-vmas-gaga/?hpt=en_c2

 

[Jack89]

Problem:Their sh$t tests and their also called fronting. Also trying to qualify you through stupid tests in this case push pull.

Solution: YOU have to be the one qualifying them. Maintain your frame or ground and spin plates. A man with options will have in this mentality "this girls fronting, I'm gonna hit up girl #2 or #3"