"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Had a Major Epiphany Today: !

mackdaddy27

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This is rule number one for being a DJ, it seems simple but has major implications to yourself.
Grind this into your Brain:
Never procrastinate, never make an excuse for an action that needs to happen today. In other words, if you need to take her inside and begin kino, Don't make excuses to yourself like 'I dont have enough skills' , 'I dont feel alpha right now' , ( an alpha is always an alpha at all times) or ' I don't have the energy right now bc I didn't sleep'..'its raining not a good time'. If you have to find out whether it will work with this girl or not , don't wait , do it right away. Never delay or hold back on acting on something.. Never. Never. NEVER.....because and this next part is very important.
You Will Become Beta. ( YOU are subcommunicating to yourself , to your own self-image, that
your time is free, that it isn't valuable enough. You are subcommunicating that she is more valuable than you, that you have to wait until the perfect time to talk to her/do stuff with her. And we all know, THE 1 MINUTE you put someone above, YOUR GAME IS OVER. NEVER put ANYONE ABOVE YOU.
We all know that as an alpha , his time is most important. By Acting, YOU reaffirm who you are to yourself -- the alpha. GET SLAPPED, kicked , get spit on , get in trouble doesn't matter, inside you will be smiling no matter what happens, because you have reaffirmed that YOU are a Man , that you are an alpha. But if you winker away, NOT ONLY will she detect the hints of beta-ism, but you will re-affirm the circle. By sub-communicating to yourself your beta, you will act beta, she will pick on it, and she will treat you beta. It all starts with in action, if you start questioning, the act of questioning itselfs thought pattern by default puts you in a beta, should I , you question yourself, doubt etc.

REMEMBER:

IF YOU QUESTION IT, THEN YOU ARE NOT IT. IF YOU QUESTION YOUR AN ALPHA, HOW CAN YOU FEEL THAT YOU ARE AN ALPHA?


Peace Out. ,

Mac
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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are you sure?

I thought the #1 rule was to learn eye contact

man, nwo I have to start over
 

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Part Ii : Of My Epiphany

The moment, that you tell yourself , that you want to make her a gf, that you can’t walk away.
That you begin to supplicate, and to say to yourself ..I Put her companionship above your time, status, your value, that is the exact moment she has lost attraction for you. The moment, when you can’t just walk away and say f*** her, is the point where you have lost the ‘Game’ with her. She has lost attraction for you. This can happen at any point , even if you know her for 10 minutes, to even knowing her for 5 – 10 hours.

So how does one achieve this?

1) value your time – the most important , most I can’t stress this enough. It seems really simple but it has huge implications. Have a life, you have to value yourself highly before you can even say that your more valuable than other, keep yourself busy doing a lot of things, so that you will feel that you are important person. Be doing like 10 times at the same time, learning , keep an active , interesting lifestyle for yourself. This tells yourself that you are a important busy person with a life. IF you find yourself sitting alone , hesitating or thinking whether I should call her or not, then you are already beta-ed yourself , telling yourself your time Is not important, that you are not an important person. What people have to realize is that you can’t fake an alpha all the time, that there is will be an incongruency in your brain, if you tell yourself one thing and do another. The easiest solution to this problem is the make it such that you are living the life of an alpha. Live like a alpha, take action like one… and this will be in congruency with what you have told yourself in your affirmations, which will lead to you acting like an alpha. You have to realize, that its really hard to ‘act’ alpha unless your internal state is in congruency then it will come naturally , and you just know what to do. To achieve this, you have to do whatever it takes to get into the state. How does one achieve this state ?
2) Spin several plates at one, you don’t get attached emotionally to just one at the same time. And you automatically feel like you come from the frame of you are the prize. Its really hard to not
3) Always when you are interacting with a girl, you have to just feel that you have the state down. If you don’t, find out what you have to make yourself get into state. Life wieghts, social acceptance, achieve something whatever you have to do, sports, achievement, self-talk, associating with high value people, doing stuff your good at. Social value. Fix self-esteem issues.
4) Never have fear of acting. You just have to act is all I can say.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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