Had a hickey in front of another girl

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

steeringclear

Don Juan

Today at 6:41 PM

Met up with a girl who was giving me a hard to get vibe, showed up with a hickey from the night prior (which isn’t a flex I hate them but it just so happened to be on me) and she instantly noticed started trying to call me out on it and have me say what it was and I just kept laughing and ignoring her question. The whole time she couldn’t stop staring at it and getting more sexual with me. Eventually ****ed her raw that night even though she said she never ****s without a condom. Funny how women work

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.