"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Had a great time clubbing...

matygee

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I made absolutely no pick ups, danced with a couple girls and grabbed a whole bunch of asses. I grabbed alot of asses and this one girl told me that im sexy and cute but shes not touchy feely. so i nexxed her and then there was this next broad told me to sit down sat on my lap and we took pictures and it was good then i went up to the bar and shes like buy me a drink i replied with how do i kno ur worth it and she left off and came back later asked me again but said the same thing. i was pretty mashed tho had a great time either way but no pick ups was rejected by a few girls for dances when i tried to get in with the groups of girls dancing theyd say things like oh nothing against u ur sexy but n theyd walk away. well anyways i dont give a **** and its a great feeling still had a great time.:up:

dont need to pick up chicks to have fun
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Distant Light

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I'm glad you had fun but this isn't just about having fun its getting girls while having fun. I'm not sure if that is common around by you but that is typical parties. Dancing and grinding and then go home. But how much better would it be that your doing all of that while still getting some girls in the process.

Overall glad you had fun.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Distant Light said:
I'm glad you had fun but this isn't just about having fun its getting girls while having fun. I'm not sure if that is common around by you but that is typical parties. Dancing and grinding and then go home. But how much better would it be that your doing all of that while still getting some girls in the process.

Overall glad you had fun.
Life isn't just about the hook-up, you can still have a good time doing things if you get out there with the right mindset. Besides, genuinely having a good time and overall good demeanor is much more attractive to women than a cynical outlook on things.
 
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