You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
one of these days you're going to punch the wrong guy then you're going to be picking your teeth up of the floor.zinc4 said:I punched him straight in the chest abd told him disrespect me again and u will regret it
old stories are good, but this is 2014, things have changed, this isn't 50-60 years ago.BetterCallSaul said:Then people attack the guy for his actions? This is a great example I think of how drastically our society has changed over the past, say 50-60 years.
I can remember a couple of stories from my dad talking about my grandpa and how he'd get royally pi$$ed at his wife for something.
Talking about her calling the police, getting other people involved, this might be construed as assault?
asa_don said:one of these days you're going to punch the wrong guy then you're going to be picking your teeth up of the floor.
old stories are good, but this is 2014, things have changed, this isn't 50-60 years ago.
any force against women like that can land you in jail or get a visit from the police, that ain't worth it to prove you're a "tough guy" to some lousy chick.
all she has to do is get pissed off enough, make the call, and they will come to investigate, if they find reasonable evidence of assualt you will go to jail, that ain't worth it.
i remember this guy at my old apartment, he roughed up some latina chick, she called 4 guys over to beat the sh!t out of him.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There's a semi-well known story of John Lennon doing basically this when he was married to Yoko Ono. They were at a party, and he disappeared into a bedroom with some chick. There followed a lot of loud noises of lovemaking while Yoko sat in the living room, embarassed. Apparently she was extremely p!ssed off at him over this. Not because he had sex with the girl, but because he humiliated her at the party.backbreaker said:a real pimp calls up a side peice in front of her, has her come over, goes into the other room and has sex with her while this girl is in the living room.