"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Had a date with a girl I met 10+ years ago

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Yeah back in my 20s and omg has she aged! She probably was like 23-24 when I met her, now she is probably like 35-36 and her face looks horrible. I kept thinking Des is right about 27 being the expiration date for a woman... her looks took a hit... I mean this girl used to be hot but now it looks like she's been hit with the ugly stick.

Her body is still nice though, I had a few beers and I ended up making out with her though.. When I went for the kiss she seemed to let me kiss her soft for a bit and then pull back and said she had a nice time. I went in again for the kiss softly and she let me and I pulled back slightly a little as we were kissing and she came in for more. She put her hand on my chest as she was kissing me and was rubbing. I got a hard on

Should I tap it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I was pretty drunk when I wrote that post. Now that I'm sober I'll provide a little more coherent background.

She was friends with a friend of mine from college sister. We met like twice over 10 years ago. One night we went out to a club and my friend was into her. She ended up grinding with me but then my friend's sister c-blocked me and I never saw her again. She was hot from what I remember.. pretty face hot body....

Well seeing her yesterday it looks like someone hit her face with a baseball bat... I can't even explain what happend... Her face looked so bad or maybe it was just so different than I remember.. I actually wanted to ditch her when I saw her... But after a few beers when she got up she still has a nice body and I could see her thong imprint through her pants... I got a hard on and made a move to kiss her when I left her... we kissed for a bit and I got even harder. Today she texted me randomly asking how my day was...

Should I even bother? My current gf is a lot prettier but this girl does have a hot bod
 
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tap that ass bro. raw dog that hoe an bust in her face maybe it will help regenerate some youth
 
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Lol. Well I decided not to pursue, I'd rather pursue a chick I'm attracted to. I haven't contacted her this week and niether has she. She seems like she's been around so probably used to it. I find it funny she didn't recognize who I was, not that I expected her too, but she was talking about my old friends like I didn't know them, found it funny lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Julian said:
tap that ass bro. raw dog that hoe an bust in her face maybe it will help regenerate some youth
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Sounds like a recipe for another bun in the oven.
 
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