"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ha Ha, So i did it what does this mean?

Zaraza

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I caught her off gaurd leaned in for a kiss, her eyes popped out. I was like "what no kiss?, too innocent?" lol, she just stood there as i walked away with a smile. Soon as i get in the car i get a call from her, shes giggling laughing smiling, happy. She tells me shes now very nervous and i caught her off gaurd. She keeps stuttering and babbling, basically rephrasing the "unexpected" thing.

then she sneaks in... "never say never, your very cute and attractive and i like you makin me laugh, but im caught off gaurd, we dont even know each other"

You guys dont know how much of a boulder is off my chest, and how much my ego is through the roof.


After almost dieing in a head on collision, my view of life is slowly changing, Confidence has reapeared.

Thanks All

shes obviously attracted but is unsure... pursue or next?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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daygameguy

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Nice. Go get her tiger.
 

Zaraza

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It was my **** test for her, i think ill pursue slowly. We work together....
 

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wait you didn't quite explain how the whole kiss thing happend...

Did you just meet the girl and start it right form there or did you talk to her for a while?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Zaraza

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We've gone out twice, and had a great time. She was all over me, always touching my biceps, my triceps, pinching my abs and she would always cutely joke around about sex and everything. After going to water falls with her, we text and she says im cute and innocent. That irked me lol. We went out to buy a mountain bike for her and walkin out to her car i grabbed her by the hand brought her in and made eye contact and leaned in for a kiss 80%, got no reaction she just stood there shocked. So i said "what no kiss? too innocent?" and walked away with a smile. She called me instantly after that. Stuttering, cuold hear it in her voice she was excited/confused. She kept saying, that im attractive and very cute and that we should never say never. <-- she basically did this for the whole conversation lol. Till i said good night.


We didnt kiss, but this not only gave me my balls back, it boosted my confidence feeling. Feels to me that she is confused and wants something to happen but doesnt know when... she was like... "we dont even know each other we need to hang out more".

I dont know guys, Im just happy to be back, and all about having fun.
 

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well grats on your confidence return.... i'd say pursue more, the only thing you can get out of this(from what ive heard) is more confidence, sex, maybe a relationship if thats what you're looking for. so good job:up: keep it up
 

Zaraza

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Thanks Xtasy, nice to see a serious and non sarcastic response on this board haha. Yea, i was in a broken down state of mind a few days ago, this is very refreshing. I think ill pursue her slowly,
 

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zaraza,
good job.
im in oregon too. :cheer:
 

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Good to hear. Now go use your new found confidence and pursue other women, while working on this seemingly prude attention wh0re.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zaraza

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lol, she invited me to get smoothies and payed for me. haha. If anything i get free food lol.

Man im Jewish
 
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