"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DonMEgaHoss
Don Juan
Quit being nerdy. Mainly nerds use leetspeak since there not out there approaching but thinking of 'cool' new ways to type words
jesus rice..... I dont mean to flame but.... BUILD YOUR LIFE UP THEN WORRY ABOUT WOMEN!
Plus when you care the least about women. Is when most of them come.
T Money
Senior Don Juan
So true, so true.
Get women off your mind, unplug your computer, buy some nice new threads, go out and TALK to girls.
But first, read the Bible. Link at the bottom of your screen.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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I can't imagine this guy being older than 13 and actually being serious.
T Money
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T Money
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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S1NN3R
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Shut up and go beg an internet girl for her AIM.skip2mylou781 said:he doesnt seem new here.......seems like hes mocking some of u by being sarcastic LOL....and hey, its wat some of udeserve, especially the ones who flame on my advice
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clockforyou said:wow ur really gorgeous! can I get ur AIM sn?
clockforyou said:hi u r soo gorgeous, lemme get ur sn so we can talk sometime