"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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H P D? L O L!

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Today I've read several articles on HPD, and I must say I am shocked. I am shocked that such a dumbass like the "discoverer" of the HPD ever existed.

It seems to me that it must have been some nerdy doctor who envied those outgoing and socially successful people, so he called their personality type a "disorder". And you are "healthy" only if you are completely charmless. It's almost like if someone would pick some temperament type (say choleric) and said you've a personality disorder if you have this temperament type. Actually, this "HDP" IS one of personality types in the new typology ( http://www.9types.com ).

I really don't get how can people be so dumb and believe such a bull****.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's because they want us to be numbers, not people.

We are nothing more than a battery waiting to deplete its remaining life.

They want us all to be the exact same.

Bull**** in my opinion.
 
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Its because they want you to spend thousands on psychiatric treatment to make you "normal". Been happening for thousands of years.
 
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Technically we ALL have disorders of some kind.
 
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Are you talking about histrionic? Apparently you've never met someone with the disorder. There's a difference between being a charmer and being an attention ***** who will do anything to get attention, as if they were a coke addict looking for their next fix. You can be charming and the center of attention, and not be histrionic.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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