"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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anyone here do it?

i want to start, but am curious about logistics

as in what to do with sweaty clothes and shoes and wet towel, etc

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Put it in a bag
 
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We have a gym in the building, it's actually very nice and a great perk that you don't see everywhere.

I work out after 5:00pm, just because I want to relax during my lunch hour. I usually shower on site and then go home, because I have about an hour commute and it kind of stinks doing it sweaty. Bring everything in a bag to and from. I tried leaving a towel and soap in a locker, but that got smelly really quickly--it didn't help that our locker room has a sauna.

By far, the most popular time to go is during the noon hour, which actually makes a lot of sense, but I just didn't want to get all worked up at noon. It's a great way to meet people in the company that you normally wouldn't talk to ever, though. I always see the VP of my division in there in the morning, but I'm not a big enough brown-noser to change my schedule to get on his good side.
 
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