Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Pook says that the most important reason to bulk up is that it makes your personality more masculine. Looks are a nice side-effect, but you really shouldn't dwell on them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Quagmire911 said:
I don't read any of that stuff anymore. Joined when I was 15 or something and then probably matured a bit and realized that a lot of the stuff was over complicating things. Been with a girl for nearly two years now and I don't have to think about all that stuff. Quite frankly half the guys using all that abbreviated s*** are pretty sad and it is counter productive in my opinion.

I really only come in here. Pop into anything else occasionally if there are some interesting looking threads.
Yeah, some is def over complicating things, some isn't. I think this site attracts a lot of nerds (I can't talk, cause i am one deep down, Star Wars fan with a hundred dollar lightsaber haha :up: ) and they tend to over analyze like a bunch of girls :rolleyes:

A mistake i made with my girl who i was dating for almost three years was that i stopped being the don juan/myself I was in the beginning, I got cheated on one day and caught her immediately. Until it was over, i didn't realize what happened, and it hit me hard. Lame i know, but the best advice I could give to someone on this board it would be, stay the MAN you are, don't change for her.

I always knew of this section of sosuave when i was a kid, and i always wanted to try Diesil's bulking plan at 17, but i chickened out. But i knew i'd comeback...and a year of training under my belt, i am very happy i did. It's been well worth it.

And i also believe what Pook says about it making you more masculine.
 
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