"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJCorleone

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Hey, finally getting a gym membership tomorrow, wondered if you could throw me some advice on this routine? Im about 165lbs, 'skinnyfat', and quite weak!

Monday

Wrist/Forearm Curls: 4 x 8
Squats: 3 x 5
Bench Press: 3 x 5
Deadlift: 1 x 5
Dips (weighted): 2 x 5-8


Tuesday

Low Intensity Cardio (Walking, biking, swimming)


Wednesday

Barbell Rows 3 x 5
Squats: 3 x 5
Press: 3 x 5
Power Clean: 3 x 5
Dumbell Incline Press: 3 x 5


Thursday

Low Intensity Cardio (Walking, biking, swimming)


Friday

Military Press 3 x 5
Squats: 3 x 5
Bench Press: 3 x 5
Deadlift: 1 x 5
Dips (weighted): 2 x 5-8
Skullcrushers: 3 x 5


Add pull-ups, chinups, pushups and crunches to failure everyday.
I put the forearm curls in because i've broken both arms twice and need to build them up, but could anyone suggest anything to add/take away/change around? Thanks!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mintxx

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well, that's quite ambitious, compared to my current routine after 6 years in the gym. i suggest that you go right ahead and do it though, after two weeks report back. right now doing ANYTHING is better than nothing, so just get in there and have at it.
the only thing i would suggest right now is that you stop well before you pass out on the 10th set on Friday.

good luck bro - you will quickly get an idea of how your body responds and it will hopefully be up the charts from there. be aware that what you're doing isn't really sustainable or well ordered but you can work on that later, if you've just joined a gym the important thing is to get the mojo of hitting the iron regularly.
 

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mintxx said:
well, that's quite ambitious, compared to my current routine after 6 years in the gym. i suggest that you go right ahead and do it though, after two weeks report back. right now doing ANYTHING is better than nothing, so just get in there and have at it.
the only thing i would suggest right now is that you stop well before you pass out on the 10th set on Friday.

good luck bro - you will quickly get an idea of how your body responds and it will hopefully be up the charts from there. be aware that what you're doing isn't really sustainable or well ordered but you can work on that later, if you've just joined a gym the important thing is to get the mojo of hitting the iron regularly.
He could just start with where to start and do things the correct way. But yeah in my experience your right, most just need to learn the hard way.

OP whatever you do, use weight thats light for you, last thing you'll want is a stupid injury that you'll hate yourself for later down the line assuming you start doing things right.
 

CaptainJ

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Finally, someone on here who doesn't do a 3 day split routine as a beginner. You've struck gold my friend. Get rid of the forearm curls, you won't need them. Deadlifts will work your forearms HARD. If you need an assistance exercise for deadlifts, then do Farmer walks. Get rid of skull crushers too, your triceps will get hit hard enough from press, military press, bench press and dips.

Make sure you start on a very low weight (Just the 20kg bar for most things) and FOCUS on your form for squats. Make sure you nail it early on before the weights get heavy. Check out stronglifts.com for videos and articles on proper technique.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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