I havn't been able to get too a gym for last 2 months, so I've just been working out at home. Been doing quite alot of pressups the last 3 weeks or so and i Can notice its firmed and toned my chest more than it was
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I do the same thing. Bend knees and cross feet. Sometimes to get a good angle i'd actually wrap my legs around the dip bar I used to use and then it would act as a slide mechanism and worked really well.Espi said:On dips, in addition to angling my body for chest, I usually bend my knees and cross my legs. But, like you say, I feel that dips work the chest regardless of body position (angling forward does take the tri's out a bit, though).
The problem I have with weighted dips versus unweighted dips is it's much harder for me to lower my arms to parallel. I start with a 35 pound plate attached to a belt; I do three sets, increasing the weight 10 pounds each set. By the third set @ 55 lbs., my body doesn't seem to allow my arms to reach parallel. I guess it's going to take a few more weeks before I can build my strength to such a level. Also, I usually drop set the last set, meaning I'll work the last weighted set to failure, then immediately strip my belt and continue dipping just my bodyweight until failure.
In my experience, where the problem lies with that (or I would have done that long ago) is that if you pop the plates inside (a 45 wont fit) and even if it could, you would have to get to the ground, get in position, and then rep.Quiksilver said:Sounds like we're all on the same page for Dips.. I strap a dumbbell between my legs with the belt & some caribeeners, cross legs, and angle myself. Is it really important to have the widegrip hand position? Right now my arms press in a Hammer Decline position. Btw, up to bw + 60lbs on dips
About the weighted pushups, how about taking a snug-fitting backpack along with you and popping the plates inside it? I don't like the idea of resting plates on my back, or relying on a spotter to saddle me up. Sure the odds of something going wrong are slim, but... 1 in 500 chance he's going to break my back by dropping a 45lb plate onto a disc is not worth it.
I'm going to give it a shot though, have always had a soft spot for bodyweight exercises.
I'll have to test that for myself. If you get a goodsized school bag or something, im sure you could modify it to hold plates(put some velcro straps on the inside or rope or something.In my experience, where the problem lies with that (or I would have done that long ago) is that if you pop the plates inside (a 45 wont fit) and even if it could, you would have to get to the ground, get in position, and then rep.
I'll tell you right now that's impossible with 115lbs. Then when your spent on your last rep, how do you get up? You cant.
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Try it. Maybe you're oversimplifying, but if you can do it and it not be a hassle, more power to you.Espi said:I'm wondering why I can't simply insert, say, 4 25-lb. plates and fasten my backpack before assuming the pushup position? Surely most guys can walk around with 100 lbs. tucked into their backpack, right? I mean, it's not like you're going to be walking around the gym with 100 lbs. of weights in your backpack.
Afterwards, simply roll over and detach the backpack.
Am I oversimplifying?
Let me know how it works with 115lbs.Quiksilver said:Aight, I tried it today.
It works!
It could do with some tweaking though, I only put 1 25lb plate in. Depending on your hand/foot position, and your rep speed, the weight slides forward in the backpack, and the pack straps can come up toward your head as well. I'm going to get a pack with a waist strap, and also tether the plate to the BOTTOM of the backpack, to keep it from sliding around.
Getting it off is pretty easy. Yeah just roll onto your side once your completely grounded.
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Dont think i'd be doing push-ups, but instead hip thrustsSlone said:I'd recommend getting a 120lb girl off a treadmill to lie on your back, even weight distribution.