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Gym prices in England?

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Hi,

Hopefully, a mate and myself are going to England in Feb. for a while.

Just wondering, how much, on average, is it to join a gym over there? Also, how much is it to use it once (e.g. when theres no membership).

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I live around Nottingham. Expensive round here mate, about £50 a month.
But the gym i go to doesn't require memebership and i pay £2.60 for however many hours you want.
 

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Depends on the qualityof gym
Theres one called David Loyd I know of, their extotionate. For a student, it £290 join up fee and 45 per month after that.
Where I go the uni has a deal with, so its £180 a year for a student, something like £100 jon up fee and £20-30 a month for the public.
Other gym thats linked with the MT gym is like £18 a month and no join up, but thats for a "bronze membership", golds like 35 a month. Some gyms like the above have MA gyms attached to them, so you pay to join the MA gym (for the MT it is £25 for the year), and you can use the weights gym during the training days.
 
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Depends on the quality. Over summer I paid around £14 per every four weeks at one in a small town near us. It had mostly everything you wanted.

The one I'm at now is a Christmas present and, again, a four-week membership as I'm only here for a few weeks. This one works out around £50 for the four weeks, although there is also use of a swimming pool, jacuzzi, sauna and steam room..:)
 
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Whereabouts are you staying over the Irish Sea?

I also go to a gym at my university but I expect it's heavily subsidised, as I pay a joining fee of £27 per year, and either £1.25 or £1.50 each time I go, depending if it's off-peak or not.
 

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Hoping to go to canterbury?

Thanks for the replies guys.
 
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