i have a great facility to connect with both men and women and women like to talk to me and are with me, however at the gym there is a girl who has an ass and the rest well prepared , but she has been more difficult to connect with me, I've been using the ignore trick, once she approached, however, although we exchanged few words, any strategy do you advise me to use that can yield me an apprenticeship with her?
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We get a lot of 'gym girl' threads on this forum. I've never responded to any but I will break my indifference this one time.
Don't go to the gym to pick up chicks: go to the gym to work out. When you are working out women are distracting. I like to get in and get out and move on to other things.
I never believed that being in a gym puts you at your best, because if you are really working out, you look a mess and are tired.
My advice is to ignore women in the gym... just ignore them, focus on why you are there and stick with that. It's actually better if you find a free weight gym with no AC, maybe in a warehouse with punching bags and a boxing ring, no health spa with a fvcking juice bar. The only women you will see in these places are not there to meet dudes, they are there to workout and maybe train for MMA fighting.
If when you are in a gym and some chick throws herself at you... fine... run with it, but there are better places to meet women.
Don't go to the gym to pick up chicks: go to the gym to work out. When you are working out women are distracting. I like to get in and get out and move on to other things.
I never believed that being in a gym puts you at your best, because if you are really working out, you look a mess and are tired.
My advice is to ignore women in the gym... just ignore them, focus on why you are there and stick with that. It's actually better if you find a free weight gym with no AC, maybe in a warehouse with punching bags and a boxing ring, no health spa with a fvcking juice bar. The only women you will see in these places are not there to meet dudes, they are there to workout and maybe train for MMA fighting.
If when you are in a gym and some chick throws herself at you... fine... run with it, but there are better places to meet women.
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I think it is worth approaching at the gym. When I've done approaches on the general gym floor, I've been more aware of IOIs than I might be in other venues. I've liked my gym and don't wish to change gyms. If you do approach strangers at the gym and the interaction goes bad at some point, you might be changing gyms or changing locations of your chain gym (24 Hour Fitness, LA Fitness, Equinox, etc.)
Fitness classes within a gym are better for approaching than the general gym floor. You eliminate the earbud problem by approaching before/after class.
Fitness classes within a gym are better for approaching than the general gym floor. You eliminate the earbud problem by approaching before/after class.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.