"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gym Girl who has MAJOR defenses up...avoids all eye contact.

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Yup....it is a turn off.

I keep bothering to say "Hi" or "Wassup?"..because we pass right by each other...either on the sidewalk or on the steps, etc. It sorta feels like by me "not" saying anything (at least at this point), it comes off as me being an arse...or some sort of weakness maybe.

I dunno...strange I guess.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't take offense to this but stop being a girl! A chick who has not acknowledged your exsistance with the exception of the word hi, and you feel like an azz by not saying hi. STOP BRO lol. Ignore that dumb chick. Maybe if you slam into her on the steps and keep going she will want to F*ck you lol. Women are crazy like that. ON TO THE NEXT!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Meh, disagree with those who say move on and next her. The question is, do you want to bang her? If so then stop the speculation and make a move. Engage in a conversation with her and see if she would like to do something with you. Find out.
 
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Meh, disagree with those who say move on and next her. The question is, do you want to bang her? If so then stop the speculation and make a move. Engage in a conversation with her and see if she would like to do something with you. Find out.
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Well I wouldn't do it because the girl hasn't made a move at all. Like I was in a similar situation, the difference is that the girl was looking at me A LOT. So I propose a coffee, a time and got the number. She never replied lol

So sure OP, you can go and try something so you stop wondering. But then again, I'm sure it is a lost cause. Plus there's other girls at the gym and they are looking at you (I'm sure they are looking at me too when I go to the gym)

So go after those women instead
 
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Just say good morning when you see her around the building. Even as you walk by. You know how you would with a stranger on the street. If she won't reciprocate a simple "Good Morning" then I'd try and forget about it. You are over thinking this.
 
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Well I wouldn't do it because the girl hasn't made a move at all. Like I was in a similar situation, the difference is that the girl was looking at me A LOT. So I propose a coffee, a time and got the number. She never replied lol
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Yeah but you took action and found out, good for you. If she had said yes I bet you'd be singing a different tune.

You said you wouldn't do anything in this situation because she hasn't made a move. It's a big mistake to wait for the girl to make a move. Even if she's interested, never expect the girl to make the move.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah but you took action and found out, good for you. If she had said yes I bet you'd be singing a different tune.

You said you wouldn't do anything in this situation because she hasn't made a move. It's a big mistake to wait for the girl to make a move. Even if she's interested, never expect the girl to make the move.
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Even if I have a positive outcome with that girl from the gym, I would give same advice to OP. Why ? Because in my example, the girl was receptive. She was looking, I had a conversation (well a few), then I did my move. I got the number too.

In OP example, there's nothing to work with, he tried to address her and nothing happen, multiple times.

So why in the world he should try one more to approach an unapproachable girl ?
 
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Ja...I would agree there to some degree...

I chatted up a few other girls at the gym today (no one I am interested in)...just to get some long needed practice back in...

I only see her at the gym "maybe" once a week...usually she is there Wednesdays...did not see here today though...so probably will not for another week or so.

There is a cool looking surfer girl who lives at the other end of my building...but she has a LOT of guy friends (she seems like a bit of a Tomboy)...I'll hit her up when I see her next.
 
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Even if I have a positive outcome with that girl from the gym, I would give same advice to OP. Why ? Because in my example, the girl was receptive. She was looking, I had a conversation (well a few), then I did my move. I got the number too.
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Not all girls are the same. Some are outgoing and friendly, others are quiet and keep to themselves. If you want to bang either type, you have to make a move. I don't think the OP made a move with this one, just small talk here and there.
 
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OP, are you afraid of making a move or something. Even if it's just small talk, I would have at least ask for the number. She'll either say yes or no. And you get a straight answer right away, instead of wasting 5 days debating about this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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no no...not afraid...just never felt I had the opportunity. She is really unapproachable, which leave the small talk to be VERY minimal. I usually only see her once a week, as her schedule is not consistent. I'll push it the next time I see her...
 
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Just stop her and say hey...excuse me...you have something in your hair...act like you are inspecting and pulling something out then quickly say...

Oh..you know what...its just my number and extend a folded up business card concealed in your hand...she will take it out of subconscious submission to your body language unless she's just totally freaked/creeped out by you.

Then when she laughs say cheesy pick up lines aside...I'm "your name" and I'd like to get a drink with you sometime. "

You have to act non chalant and give off a fun vibe when u do this though.

I'm assuming this chick has a boyfriend, though. Try it and report back. Has worked for me before.
 
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