"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gym Girl Pickups

Flint Stoner

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Ok so I'm working out at my college gym a week ago, I see the sexiest girl I've ever seen in my life, like I'm talking ridiculously hot... so hot I would assume I have no chance. I'm checking her out the entire time, and I'm sure she busted me more than once... I finish my workout and I leave.

Now yesterday same thing, I go to the gym and it's the same girl. So same deal I'm checking her out nonstop. But then when she's leaving, she looks around the room, stares at me, we make eye contact she gives a huge smile and leaves.

Normally I wouldn't make a big deal out of this, but this girl is literally a perfect 10, huge tits, amazing ass and she expressed some interest level, so I want some input from you guys. I was considering "accidentaly" bumping into her when we leave, offering her a drive home and then hitting her with some C&F and number close.


Has anyone ever had great success with a gym pickup?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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nonchalant

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Flint Stoner said:
the sexiest girl I've ever seen in my life, like I'm talking ridiculously hot... so hot I would assume I have no chance.

this girl is literally a perfect 10, huge tits, amazing ass
you're already done bro. you got her on a pedastal about 50 stories tall.
 

Krassus

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"Accidentaly" bumping into her? What are you a chick? Brother... grow some balls! Walk up to her like a man, and take what's yours!
 
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