F404 said:
"Hey, do you want to hang out this weekend?" ------ I'm aware that this was a VERY beta way of closing.
Then why'd you do it?
She replies: "Oh no, I don't hang out."
Basically saying she wasn't interested unless you upped your ante. If a guy she was more attracted to had said the same thing, she would have smiled and said, "Sure!"
I smile and say: "Alright then, I'll see you around."
That response is fine if and only if you never initiate contact with her ever again. "One and done" is fine if in fact you stick with the "done" part.
I tell her that I wasn't trying to "just hang out" but instead was asking to see if she'd like to go on a date with me.
Too pathetic for words.
Which she replies "Hmm, maybe."
Super low interest and doesn't even care enough to disguise it. You like being kicked in the nuts over and over again it seems.
Um no, that's very far from "good."
although my approach/banter/close game could have been a LOT better.
Actually, it couldn't have been a lot worse.
I'm pretty sure I've lost this one,
No man, you're still in the game! Just buy her some gold earrings and offer to take her to the fanciest restaurant in town! After a year of you being her personal valet, she might "learn to love you" and even agree to marry you. Three years after the wedding she'll burst into tears and tell you she never loved you and that she's been cheating since right after the honeymoon and she wants a divorce. But that's not a loss, man, that's.. that's life, right?
I'm just sitting here hoping she's classy enough to not fall for the "bad boy" BS.
Unless this can salvaged, I think the right thing to do is move on, and just better my game. :box:
Better start readin'
