"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gym approaches, for those that do them

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Doing gym approaches... gyms have the finest girls in them. The thing is alot of the fine girls are regulars, which stop me from hitting on them because getting knocked down and then going to the same gym would be awkard. Not to mention, if you approach a few girls in the gym you might get a bit of a reputation going around the gym. Or do you guys just not give a fvck and approach the regulars?

I have more luck picking good looking drunk hoes or junkie hors at parties, but I wanna try at some quality women now... sick of those other drug addled sluts.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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um, i'll be doing more soon since i'll have access to one shortly

I smile, say hi, I don't feel the need to rush things or PU in the gym. Had one HB8 pull off her headphones to talk to me once. :D


I talk about how good exercise feels, the sweat running down your body, breathing hard.


I usually do it when I first get there, otherwise once I start my workout I don't look at anyone, don't talk to anyone and work like a demon-possessed.
 

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I was discussing this one with my best friend, a natural, the other day. He brought up a very valid point - the reason why most people go to the gym is so that they'll get in better shape, which will in turn attract more people of (hopefully!) the opposite sex. The girls you see doing set after set isn't thinking to herself "What glorious legs I have - I can't wait to shave them!". No. Her thoughts are somewhere along the lines of "Now I can wear the skirt I just bought and show these babies off". They are already in the mood for starting up a conversation, and if you approach them correctly you shouldn't have any problems in getting a successful close. For example - they want to believe that other people have noticed their success... even if you can't tell that she went from a 110 to a 107, comment. "I saw you here a while back - you're looking a lot better than you did then..." While some might take that as an insult, stand by your innocence and you'll be in the zone within a short amount of time.

Oh, one other thing - you mentioned that you like to pick up girls at bars and other places. Would you limit yourself to one bar? Of course not. Why stay with just one gym? Most have a free month trial period - go for a few weeks, see who's worth your time, then attack. Move on the the next gym, repeat.
 

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when I'm in the gym, and the testosterone starts flowing... I'm like a dog in heat.


and everything come natural.
 

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Just a funny story. AT my gym there are these 2 ****tards that wear button down shirts and slacks when they workout. They think it is a club and that they try to pick up every girl that walks by. Dont be like them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dee-Zy

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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
I was discussing this one with my best friend, a natural, the other day. He brought up a very valid point - the reason why most people go to the gym is so that they'll get in better shape, which will in turn attract more people of (hopefully!) the opposite sex. The girls you see doing set after set isn't thinking to herself "What glorious legs I have - I can't wait to shave them!". No. Her thoughts are somewhere along the lines of "Now I can wear the skirt I just bought and show these babies off". They are already in the mood for starting up a conversation, and if you approach them correctly you shouldn't have any problems in getting a successful close. For example - they want to believe that other people have noticed their success... even if you can't tell that she went from a 110 to a 107, comment. "I saw you here a while back - you're looking a lot better than you did then..." While some might take that as an insult, stand by your innocence and you'll be in the zone within a short amount of time.

Oh, one other thing - you mentioned that you like to pick up girls at bars and other places. Would you limit yourself to one bar? Of course not. Why stay with just one gym? Most have a free month trial period - go for a few weeks, see who's worth your time, then attack. Move on the the next gym, repeat.




eh, I go to the gym to work out. Of course, if there's an attractive girl - Imma talk to her, but my priority is my work out - not chasing women. So changing gym every few months is a stupid idea.

I know most girls in gym go there to work out - not to get hit on, no matter how better they look. Anyways...


just my 0.02
 
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Interesting point Bishop. I'll see how I go, hopefully by this time next week I'll have a field report for you all. It's just that at the gym, when I see all these real buffed up guys, I think I don't stand a chance to get the cutie on the treadmill when there are mini arnolds walking about the place.

I'm pretty much a virgin when it comes to picking up chicks from anywhere other then parties/bars. With a few drinks in me and a few drinks in the girl, it always makes the whole transition that much more easier.
 

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Like Skel said, you don't want to be the guy in the gym wearing jeans and a button-up lifting a 5 lb. dumbbell for show. I'm about to try a gym pickup on a hot regular who I've seen scoping me out and vice versa.

I think the key is credibility. You've got to be a regular and you've got to stick to your business. I go to the gym to work out and hardly talk to anyone and people notice this so when I do talk to a girl, she's going to show respect. As far as conversation, I'm not really sure. I was thinking of just commenting on how often I see her there.
 

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Originally posted by Hollowpoint
I talk about how good exercise feels, the sweat running down your body, breathing hard.
Fvckin Ross Jeffries protege here :D
 

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I agree with One on One.



Mr.Hash wid da Stash - Stop your negativity.


Excuse me guys, I'm gonna buy some new slacks and button down shirts for the gym. :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I belong to 2 different gyms.

I know a female player woman who belongs to 3 different gyms.

Increase the amount of girlies who you have access to if you want better results. More gyms, bars, Internet sites, chat rooms, everywhere!

Sure, it will cost extra $$, but that's one price of being a player...it doesn't hurt if you have the dough to do it ;)

C'mon..it's makes sense doesn't it?!

A good sales person doesn't have only one place that s/he prospects.

If you want to just put your head down and workout at a gym, insead of working out AND meeting girls at the gym, then knock yourself out!

More chix for da playas!
 

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Originally posted by Dee-Zy

I know most girls in gym go there to work out - not to get hit on, no matter how better they look. Anyways...


just my 0.02

in the same way, there are just as many girls who apply make-up before stepping foot in the gym.
 

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Originally posted by bootlegger
in the same way, there are just as many girls who apply make-up before stepping foot in the gym.

And those are usually the ones I chat up.
 

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Originally posted by Skel
Just a funny story. AT my gym there are these 2 ****tards that wear button down shirts and slacks when they workout. They think it is a club and that they try to pick up every girl that walks by. Dont be like them.
Stop the hate...I just worked out in jeans and a polo because I went right after school. I don't particularly feel like carrying around a bag of extra clothes all day just to bench press.
 
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