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Guys you see that situation ... how you react ??

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hey guys

it's a situation i see really often lastly
chicks who's crying ... and i gotta say i don't know how to react to that .. i just follow my way and let them just like that ... and it gotta be something to do !
it can be cause they broke up or maybe something happened to them or family matters but i never know how to react without being or becoming a nice guy

so situation one: the chick is pretty hot (so why not try to get her)
situation two: the chick ain't hot but i feel a bit of pity (so why not try to comfort her)

what are you doing in these 2 situation ?


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it really depends on the girl and the situation - i dont have any hard or fast rule about this (or about any type of situation)

If it feels right to comfort then i will, prob more a hug more than "comforting words" whatever they are (usually people needing comfort aren't looking for "practical solutions" right at that minute)

I don't worry about being "the nice guy", and i don't need to pretend i'm some kind of ubermensch. You have to understand that when people talk about "nice guy" they don't actually mean nice, they're using nice as a codeword for boring/overserious/dull but want to make it not seem so mean
 
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you have a point here !
i didn't talk about a rule but how d you acting in this situation ?
are trying to be nice
to be understanding
to listen to her
or just make her laugh or whatever ?
 
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well it totally depends on both the girl and the situation

I'm not "the same" in every situation and I don't try to be - I act slightly differently with every person I know (subconsciously at least). The best thing to do with Person A in Situation 1 isn't necessarily the same as with Person B in situation 2! Trying to make a girl laugh in this type situation could yield wildly different results, depending on the girls personality. "People skills" aren't an exact science!

So basically to answer your question, I might do any of those things (or none!). I mean, "girl is upset" is kind of a vague scenario!
 
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